No matter white or black, it is still jealousy.

There is not black or white jealousy. There is jealousy or not is at all. No, any white jealousy is not good. Because in any case white jealousy leads to painful perception of yourself, that I’m not so good, not so nice, not so smart, successful, and similar. And it is not necessarily to wish something bad to others or make any damage to them in order to be overwhelmed by jealousy. It seems for me that this phenomenon is considerably worse than we think, and it affects people in not good way.

The white jealousy maybe helps us to seek more than we have, to become more famous, to buy one or other things, or achieve career but do we ask ourselves whether it is really what we want, or it’s just the effect of advertising forcing us to want something what others have. It is far from, it is our ignorance and inability to say openly our feelings. Starting with our children, it is clear that we are growing up a jealous man, if constantly repeating that a child should look at other child how he is doing this or that better, that our child must do as others doing.

Children still being little ones often feel jealous. They envy to brother, sister, friends and things, but here is needed an adult’s explanation why having what others have will not make happy your child. You need also a big patience to figure out what your child indeed wants. And it is clearly, people need to talk, and eventually learn to be tolerant and open to all views.

Because only an open communication can change our lives. Oh and this is going around the world, and it is our shame that we not learned from the mistakes of others. We feel jealousy not just to other people that we know, we envy also to other nations that have better living, earn more money, and have better caring government and so on. Jealousy is all around us. White or black, it is still jealousy.

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