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The problem with humans is to judge others
from the look of the cover.
You have heard the common phrase” Never
judge the cover of the book”
You know what it means; Never judge or put
a conclusion of a person based on his looks
(outlook). You can be wrong over being
judgemental which is unfair.
People make fun or giggle behind the back of
a person by judging on his possession and
outlook.
It is a common practice for all humans,
regardless of race, religion or skin color
which is extremely unfair and hateful.
cover of the book?
It is a natural instinct of a human nature to
keep judging oneself with others.
Comparison, looking down on others when
one knows that it is wrong, yet it had
became a bad habit that one couldn’t quit.
People judge because:
l Jealousy
l Look down
l Demeaning
l Disgust
l Hateful
l Cannot accept defeat
l Lack of security
l Wanted to create a new identity
l Trying to get bystanders to gather more
support
l Giving false news to pull down the other
party
l Ridicule the victim to look bad
l In order to embarrass the victim on purpose
l Hurtful remarks to enrage the victims
The real story
Once I knew a middle age man, who
happened to be my customer.
From the outlook, one would mistaken that
he is poor because he wear torn clothes or
sometimes faded color clothes which aren’t
suitable for outdoor shopping.
Very often, shopping malls sales people
refused to serve him because they judge him
from this dresscode, simply looked down on
him, presuming that he is a poor chap with
lack of money.
Honestly, he usually wears a worn out T-
Shirt with an old bermuda short and an old
pair of slippers, messy hair and he drives a
10 year old car to anywhere.
However, the truth is, he had land
properties, huge cash under in his closet and
credit cards which are premium gold in his
wallet.
He never runs out of cash, he never bargain
over goods purchase and he is always in a
jovial mood.
Once, he went to look for a new set of
furniture for his old home.
He went to the same furniture shop for
numerous of time because he has keen to
buy the whole set of dining table, sofa set .
kitchen cabinets embedded to the wall and
the bedroom sets.
However, non of the sales person in the
furniture shop was willing to spend time with
him, explaining the material, the cost and
the stock available.
Everytime when he left the shop, some
people were gossiping behind his back, some
were giggling while other shoppers gave a
demeaning look at him.
He didn’t care what others judge about him.
Finally, a young lady who was a new comer,
came forward to entertain him for his
queries.
A week later, he brought cash money instead
of cheque or credit card to pay the full price
of the furnitures he wanted.
Much to the surprised of everyone in the
shop, nobody had expected that this shabbily
clothed man was rich and did not even make
a bargain of the goods.
Conclusion
This proves that one should never look down
on others or being biased on another
person’s outlook, whether his dresscode, the
car he drives, the way he speak or the job
that he holds.
Nobody is willing to reveal his possession,
his money and his wealth to the public
unless he wanted to show off to others.
A low profile person does not
necessary indicate that he is low class or
poor.
A smart person does not put a tag on his
forehead with a title “ I am rich”.
Only the childish , foolish ones do care how
the others judge him.
The one who cannot lose his pride and prize
is the one who loses more.
Hence, I had learn that judging others is
unfair, gave a deep scar that hurts without
physical contact but verbally.
Do not speak if you do not know the whole
truth.
Do not give opinions without knowing the
truth behind the cause
Do not make fun of others like gossiping and
smirking behind a person’s back.
Stop judging, you will have friends instead of
foes
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Some people cannot hold themselves in judging others. All I know from the start that people do this because of insecurity.They tend to do bad things towards a certain person and feel happy about it. The mere fact, it is not healthy to make other's life in misery.
For these people, they lost their good conscience.The real truth, they will experience bad karma in time. In some instances, these people are considered "bullies." They are the menace in the society.
The insecurity is the main outcome of being jealous and having failures in life. For some reason, the good quality of a person will always start at home. It is not always the case. There are some children when they grow up as bad person. They tend to be bad and can never be changed.
This is really a touchy article I had seen so far. This is right that people always go by outward appearance neglecting the saying 'DO NOT JUDGE BOOK BY ITS COVER'.
One should know that a person does not care for money after reaching certain heights in life. He actually value the relationships and the affection only. He realizes the importance of human relationships in a society and never cares the material aspects. He lives like a highly matured person
I know a similar story. One should not judge a person by their dress...for one of the richest men in Jamaica dresses like the example in the article here. He does it so people don't beg him any money.