It is indeed a shame following your guy, what for? Never put yourself in disgrace for he might insult you and feel the injury of his insult that may lad yiu to forget that you are human or forget life by ending it for the sake which is wrong. the best way is acceptance of the reality. You must not beg for n the begging is where you will become weak and frustrated especially if you do all your best and nothing happens to your begging. It could be a displeasure on the part of the man.

Acceptance is the only solution and to face your own world. try another love and never give up love for love is mysterious you have to consider.

How do you start following up a guy, you as a lady how does that work really. If there are women who do that they may be regarded as being desperate, because what is it that is making you cling onto that guy, is it the money, security or just the love. In this case the guy is not reciprocating your love so why stay on. When love gets to the point where it becomes a one sided thing, that’s time for you to quit and start off again, because there is nothing that’s going to make the guy come back to you when you cling. You know when a lady starts to chase a guy around the guy starts to feel like he has her in the palms of his hands.that’s the time he will start taking her for granted he could even go as far as pretending to love her just to take advantage then damp her for good. Ladies if a guy wants to leave let him free if he is yours for leaps he will come back if he’s not be will disappear. Just don’t hold onto him. Someone better will come your way. It may be hard to let go but it can be done.

@Anitah Gimase, Hi friend?You are right. Why give a bargain? Why be insane to the man who does not love you anymore. That is insanity, the more the man runs away from you, It will be better for the girl to let the man realize his faults by finishing her course, find a better job, make money on line, lol. create programs in her life that would broaden her senses. We cannot actually blame those who are crazy for love. They are weak. They cannot control their emotion,All what they feel is their love or lust or the longing of someone to be depended on.

Life would mean nothing at all if focus only on your problem, girl be wise, be smart for life on earth is shaky,plus we have to spend life wisely for life is borrowed and to dust you shall return life is too short to be wasted by with your tears and aching heart to a useless person.

Well to me, I don’t think there’s anything wrong with trying to make your relationship work. As it goes with your boyfriend, so also with your husband.
You don’t say, this husband is not good and kept quiet or chase him away because you don’t want to go after him.
Truly, not all men are good but as a decent lady, you must not be jumping from one man to the other all because one man just betray your trust.

My own candid advice is that, look well as a lady before you leap before you get married to any man.

So, please you need to define what you mean by boyfriend, are you talking about the married or unmarried who are just dating?

It could be for married people, bf-gf, yes everyone deserves a second chance.

Now that you know about this citrus fruit that lets you feel fuller and never crave for more food why not applying it immediately.I think the best time to eat citrus is in the evening and have it serve as your dinner.It was not mentioned as to how many pieces of citrus fruit to consume. Actually, last December, I observed that I did not feel hungry after eating citrus fruit. I consumed 5 small citrus and after I ate them, I no longer feel hungry and no longer ate dinner. Frankly, I never had idea before that citrus fruit is very powerful fruit that lets us feel full and we cannot anymore overeat because of the satisfactory full feeling.
What do you think? Have you tried this in your ,life before or just learn it now? Thanks for reading.

Now,I have idea to have citrus as my snack hehehe. It is better to have this than to have burgers though. My weight is 110 pounds and of course, I won’t anymore drop some. I need extra weight for my works require me energy. I lecture straight 3 hours today and did not have my breakfast, I was so surprised why I was not craving for food.In the evening before I went to bed, I ate 4 pieces of small citrus hehehe.hat might be the reason why I felt hungry at 10 o clock in the morning.My lecture starts at seven o” clock and ends at 10:30 and was so hungry then. When I arrived the faculty office, I ate food fish with parsley, garlic and pepper.

Try this now, do not wait for the next day …that is if you want to reduce your weight.

Parsley is so nutritious . I like its taste. I add this to the fish I like to cook with a very small amount of water.Do not include the branches.This vegetable is also very vulnerable. You cannot keep in ref for many days, It is good only for two days like spinach two days to survive in refrigerator They must be refrigerated for they turn dry and pale .It rots after 3 days. You have to place parsley inside a plastic and seal it well to preserve this stuff.
I eat parsley once a day during lunch time.

Parsley is great for you. It’s good for your body. This is one herb that I seem to get to eat all the time. I love Italian food and I always have parsley in my Italian food. I love putting on my bake pork chops too.

Here are some simple and often surprising tricks that research shows can extend your life..
1 Switch your latte for a cuppa

Tea is packed with antioxidants called polyphenols that can help your body fight heart disease, cancer and premature ageing. Aside from the health benefits, couples with a healthy sex life can also look up to seven years younger, according to a study by the Royal Edinburgh Hospital – possibly because sex reduces stress, leading to greater ­contentment and better sleep.
4 Eat three walnuts a day

Walnuts are the healthiest nut of all because they contain the most disease-fighting and anti-ageing antioxidants, according to recent search from the ­University of Scranton, US.

Eating just three walnuts a day is enough to reap the full benefits.
5 Use less sunscreen but don’t burn

Figures show that 50% of people in the UK are deficient in vitamin D, the nutrient made by the action of sunlight on our skin, ­increasing our risk of a host of potentially fatal conditions including heart disease, osteoporosis and cancer.

To boost your ­vitamin D levels without raising your risk of skin cancer, Cancer Research UK now recommends getting a few minutes (in ­practice around 15 to 20) of sun around the middle of the day without sunscreen.

But make sure you don’t burn, or you’ll wipe out any health benefits.
6 Make six good mates you can always rely on

Developing close friendships and family ties is the secret of living to 100, according to a recent Australian study of centenarians.

Friends provide emotional support, which helps us deal with stress, and feeling loved boosts production of feel-good chemicals dopamine and oxytocin, which promote brain growth, combating ageing.

Other ­research has pinpointed six as the optimum number of friends we each need.
7 Stop eating when you’re 80% full

The Okinawans, who inhabit remote Japanese islands, have one of the world’s lowest ­rates of obesity, as well as the highest percentage of people living beyond 100.

Their secret? At every meal, they stop eating when they feel about 80% satisfied, happily leaving any excess food on their plate.

American ­researchers have also found animals can live up to twice as long when their food intake is reduced by up to a third.

As well as ­helping them to maintain a healthier weight, it’s thought eating less means the metabolism has less work to do, putting less long-term stress on the body.
8 Go to bed one hour earlier if you can

Lack of sleep can put you at greater risk of health conditions such as depression and heart disease, according to a raft of recent research.

And yet a small change makes a big difference – a study from Harvard ­Business School in the US found that for people who normally slept for seven hours or less a night, going to bed just one hour earlier led to a significant drop in blood pressure – therefore lowering their risk of heart attacks and strokes.
9 Make sure you floss every night

“Gum disease is the most widespread ­condition on the planet,” says dentist Dr James Russell.

“So I say sarcastically – floss the teeth you want to keep!”

And it’s not just your teeth that will thank you – in the past 10 years, studies have linked gum ­disease to an increased risk of other ­conditions, ­including heart disease, ­diabetes and certain cancers.
10 Be a details person

Research by US psychologist Dr Howard Friedman has found that the best predictor of ­longevity is how conscientious a person is.

That’s right – people who are careful with money, thoughtful, detail-focused and like to put everything back in its ­rightful place tend to live longer!

It’s thought that ­conscientious people may ­produce more of the feel-good brain ­chemical serotonin, which stops them comfort-eating and improves their sleep.

They also appear to be drawn towards healthier choices and can live less risky lifestyles.
11 Buy yourself a pet, and preferably a dog

People who own a pet are less stressed, less depressed and can live longer than those who don’t, according to research.

The ­calming effect of owning an animal can even drop blood pressure and reduce your risk of a heart attack, according to University of ­Minnesota researchers in the US.

Another study found owners who walk their dogs daily lived an average of seven years longer than otherwise similar non-dog owners.
12 Don’t put fruit in the fridge

You might think you’re making it last longer, but studies show that chilled fruit contains fewer health-boosting nutrients than fruit, which has been kept at room temperature.

For ­example, tomatoes and peppers stored in a bowl rather than the fridge can contain double the betacarotene and up to 20 times more lycopene.

Which is good news, as high intakes of both these ­antioxidants have been linked to better heart health and lower rates of certain cancers.
13 Be helpful and lend a hand to others

Helping others not only feels good – it could reap big health rewards too.

A long-term US study found that people who volunteered regularly over a lifetime lived significantly longer than those who didn’t.

One Israeli study found that moderate tea drinkers lived substantially longer than those who don’t have a regular cuppa.

But ­remember to give it a good stir before removing the tea bag, as research shows this releases 15% more of the age-resisting ingredients.
2 Balance on one leg every morning

It may sound strange, but standing on ­alternative legs while you dress in the ­morning forces your body to balance, strengthening your ‘core’ (back, pelvic and stomach) muscles which support your spine.

According to physiotherapist Tom Salzman: “This simple daily act will offer significant long-term benefits when it comes to staying active for longer and protecting against falls and broken bones as you get older.”
3 Have regular sex at least twice a week

A large Welsh study on longevity found that those who had sex less than once a month had double the risk of dying prematurely than those who had sex twice a week

@Miranda Hunt, Thank you dear for sharing your nice comment. At least you also like to eat parsley. I eat parsley every lunch and dinner. I just clean the leaves and then pour boiling water onto the bowl containing this vegetable. The juice of this vegetables contains anti-oxidants, best fighter for cancer cells that may abnormally grow to a human body. I like to eat this with smaller leaves easy to wash and easy to chew hehehehe. I love its bitter taste.It is from its taste that full protected will be achieved.

Lucky are those like us for we know the importance of the vegetables. We have great chances to bet bad sicknesses. Thnaks and take care my friend.

@Atua moses,Thank you boy for your effort posting a very long comment.You better had posted this as your blog so you can earn better than in commenting.Well, anyway, congrats for being so hard-working you did great effort researching about this comment or suggestion, very much appreciated.

The delicious and vibrant taste and wonderful healing properties of parsley are often ignored in its popular role as a table garnish. Highly nutritious, parsley can be found year round in your local supermarket.

Parsley is the world’s most popular herb. It derives its name from the Greek word meaning “rock celery” (parsley is a relative to celery). It is a biennial plant that will return to the garden year after year once it is established.

A sprig of parsley can provide much more than a decoration on your plate. Parsley contains two types of unusual components that provide unique health benefits. The first type is volatile oil components—including myristicin, limonene, eugenol, and alpha-thujene. The second type is flavonoids—including apiin, apigenin, crisoeriol, and luteolin.