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For my entire life I have only known of two people in “arranged marriages”. One couple stayed together and as best I can tell are happy to be with each other. The other couple ended their marriage in divorce. Don’t know if the guy was happy but the lady was relieved. She said love never developed between them even though they had a child. She did not divorce until her son was old enough to take care of himself. So based on my observation I guess the chances for a successful arranged marriage are 50/50. 🙂
In my circles, we don’t really want to arrange the marriages for our children but we do hope and pray they will “marry in the Lord”.
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What I have found, (talking to people who rejected the arranged marriage) is that after making their own mistakes they realised that they had looked for the wrong traits where the parents know what is important.
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Marriage is marriage be arranged or love marriage because if you think that marriage is a sacred ceremony and a solid process of birth for someone because you married a girl now you will marry your daughter to pay your debt of nature.
But I want to clarify what we’re talking about when we think of “failure” in marriage. Many people might think that failure equals divorce, but for others that is not so. There are many people who stay in marriages for decades, living unhappy lives and being miserable in their relationships.
I wouldn’t think of this as a “successful” marriage. We might call it a marriage of convenience, a union born of and sustained in fear of living separate and independent lives, or an alliance rooted in and perpetuated by certain patterns of being and relating that are deeply ingrained and that the participants are afraid to challenge much less break.
If we look at the couple as a unit, as an organism, we might say that the couple either “succeeds” or “fails” in being able to grow, as a couple, allowing for the growth and development of each partner in the couple
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Yes, but you forget one very important thing. Ivana was married to rich man, lived in status where women are respected and have rights, and had something to put into her pocket. Many wives in world put out with drunk with no property, keep taking violence like a good morning coffee and even verbal violence and beatings from relatives simply because they have no resources to escape situation and nobody will help them. How will a victim of domestic violence cope with emotion if everything is against?
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I wrote a number of articles as to how to deal with Domestic Violence on this site, which answers your questions.
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I want to be part of page that pays and has pleasant environment. If online participation ruins my day by trolls and humiliation I don’t need that.
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Yes… that is very important.
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Yes, there are many fake site in the world of internet but they cheat the writers and and deceive the clients and the readers what they get from deceit and I call it a self deceit and nothing else.
Beyond just basic email scams, there are other methods that scammers use to defraud people of their money through the Internet. Today, I would like to examine five additional Internet scams that are very commonplace, but unfortunately not quite as many people are aware of them.
These are scams that trip up the most people every year and lead to a substantial financial loss. Take the time to read through and understand these scams so that you never find yourself a victim of them.
I remember watching a documentary a few years ago that detailed how scammers, usually located in third world countries, set up computer clusters connected to the Internet and send out thousands of Nigerian scam emails every day.
The name of the scam comes from the original form of this scam, which consisted of emails outlining a situation in Nigeria that required a massive transfer of money from that country into the United States for safety. For assisting with the money transfer, the recipient of the email is promised a percentage of the transfer amount, usually totaling hundreds of thousands of dollars to a few million.
The second most common Internet scam is email phishing. Dean mentioned this in his article (fake links in emails to banks or Paypal), and MUO covered SonicWALL, which can detect phishing emails. However, did you know that even if you don’t click on a fake link and you follow the advice to type in your bank or Paypal’s URL directly into the browser, that the site could still be counterfeit?
It’s true. If you visit the wrong website or download the wrong file from an infected email attachment, you could end up with malware on your PC that specifically targets a browser security flaw. Internet Explorer seems to be the most vulnerable to these. The Malware basically re-routes your browser URL query to a different page than the domain that you typed in.
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it is bad enough when perfectly capable people lose their job and have to sustain from country help, but to lose your home is terrible. If low rents are alternative i am completely for this solution, but even if home is for free until people find solution it should not be some disgusting hole filled with rats. Sometimes homeless have no blame in losing homes, there was situations in which contractor in failure took flats or apartments and people we re forced to live wherever.
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A slum, a cheap slum was turned into a decent neighbourhood without any consideration of what happened to the people.
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Yes I believe the ice caps are melting. However, I wouldn’t know because I refuse to go anywhere near an iceberg. Watching the movie “Titanic” was enough for me. I don’t really like the cold. So I’m glad that rarely do we need to wear socks in Austin, Texas. 🙂
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Don’t say that! It used to be nice a toasty. I used to sleep in just a tee shirt. That was before ‘Global Warming.’
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Nothing is making sense to me at all! To learn that in the late 1800s Niagara Falls froze and then not again until last year…. I mean how could it be getting warmer if it is colder?
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I Assume they have an agenda. I assume all this ‘warming’ is to wean people from gas/oil and Saudi without making the Saudi suspicious.
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I find when I do my own research I get the same facts you are revealing. And it is incredible that something is happening, you can see it, and they are denying it.
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The scientists have told that the ice caps are melting day by day according to the law of nature not according to the law of universe. There are two poles North Pole and South pol. These two poles are the axis of the universe. Wave runs north to south pole and south to north pole and easy and west are ecliptic of the sun.
The universe end is not near because every child birth shows that God is still not disappointed with man. There are countless men and women on earth who are holy and pious spiritually and mentally.
Ice caps melting is a natural phenomena and its main purpose is to use its power for a special purpose and God knows it. What we see in the nature is the will of God and nothing else. Do not be afraid of ice caps melting and storms but divine books show that these are indications for men who have wisdom to do good deeds and leave the wrong path of devilish deeds against man and nature.
Because nature knows how to protect her being from the obnoxious hands of Satanist.
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Yes You say right my friend that human is betraying since its creation Eve betrayed Adam and causes the base of downfall. If Eve doe not deceive Adam we all become heaven without woes and worries with Huris beautiful women of paradise.
I have pondered over one thing that how women are attracted to self at last I find the secret from the flying tamed pigeons. When opponent’s pigeons come in the flying tamed pigeons they owner throws colored millet on the floor to create doubt in the pigeon’s heart. At last it caught by the owner sitting on the roof of the pigeons.
The same formula is applied in the women’s nature. Precious gifts are given to the woman and the women’s heart becomes dishonest from his friend, husband or any other relatives, the same formula applies a girl on the lover she wants to trap. She sends smile gift to the new lover and makes her heart dishonest from the first lover and thus she or he succeeds in his or her mission.
Clever woman traps man through her cunning will power and man is trapped easily because the will power is more power full than iron chain really is a fact. Thus man and woman deceives and cheat each other but actually they deceive themselves.
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The point is the lust. That is clearest reason why it is ‘deadly’
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Betrayal has been anyone’s cup of tea, but again even when it happens it can be forgiven but not forgotten. I may forgive you but that doesn’t mean that i will trust you again. I will always be doubtful about you no matter what, whether your telling me the truth or not. Anyway betrayal is a hard thing to take its not easy to take in it hurts so bad, and at that particular moment someone is usually in so much pain and shock that they don’t know what to do next. Walking out of a marriage because of betrayal may not be the best option it would just cause a lot of heartache instead. Many people have been heard broken and decided to leave the marriage and once they did that, what they got ahead turned out to be worded than what they had experienced. So what’s best your better off staying with the devil that you know than the Angel that you don’t. Usually when someone betrays another it’s not because they want to but they are pushed by circumstances. You may find one is doing it out of revenge, or as a rebound, others it maybe because of jealousy. So betrayal is brought about because of mistrust between two people.
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If a woman allows herself to become so weak, so helpless that she must depend on a man, to the extent she can’t leave, than she is ‘forced’ to stay and be humiliated.
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The fact is, that the scene perfectly captures a real situation. Any woman who has ever tried to stop her man from going to another woman, knows how perfectly that scene captures reality.
Trust me, a man wanting to go to his gal, will box down his wife, kick his child across the room, because he is no longer a man but something like a bull in heat.
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Your article is most important for the students but the students who have the talent of nature on birth may pass any examination all over the world because nature supports such students while on the other hand those who have no talent on birth effort more but less result due to lack of natural talent.
We cannot but wisdom nor we create it with any mineral or vitamins or any type of exercise but it is God gifted for special persons on earth for special purposes.
Keep in mind the example of the tree that faces storm, rains, dust storm and black storm…but keep its being maintains and never falls such plat live long on earth and flourish on earth. The main cause of this that the tree has created with self every natural trait to face all types of earthly storms
just like the student who protects within self natural traits and trends succeed in every field of business and other fail in mission due to lack of natural trends and traits is the main cause of that dreams do not come true.
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Classes have to be streamed so the bright child and dunce child are separate
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You say rite that name has some special and leaves s good or bad effect on the listeners to your name. But there are a few who know the real power of name because name has some alphabets and each alphabet has its special power and wave.
Think God is a name and Jesus Christ is name some day calculate power of these two names you will know the wonder of name power. So for as the name of the site concerns you say right that never promote the site that is not your own
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If you had brought people into a Scam you would not be able to use that name again, because people will recall it was you who caused them to be ripped off.
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maybe this is who we are, writing for writing sites. We are developed into this though sometimes we come to a site that is not paying but there are still some sites paying us. This is a good relationship for us. Good luck here in literacy base.
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It is very obvious on the ‘Net because people write they views; so the person who extolled Tinycents or Blogbourne can’t say s/he never said this or brought people into the site.
In RL I’ll find people babbling away about what they don’t know. They ‘hear say’ that this is that or she said/he said, and don’t realise that they are risking their credibility.
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Yes, there are many scammers on internet who cheat the people by different means and feel happiness in doing so belong to bastard families because good families children do so any wrong thin.
They are considered something of a joke by most of the millions of people who receive scam emails in their inbox every day – but they only have to be believed by a tiny percentage of people.
The numbers quickly add up, and the money which can be made by the online criminals is considerable.In recent years the scam campaigns have become more malicious, involving hijacking someone’s PC or luring naive internet users into believing they have found love online with the aim of emptying their bank accounts.
They would then send fake messages to buyers with instructions to make a payment to a bank account under their control.
The other strategy they used was to take over the email account of a high-level executive and give instructions to transfer money into a bank account they controlled.
The suspect and an accomplice, who was also arrested in the city, face charges including hacking, conspiracy and obtaining money under false pretences.
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I was sitting next to a ‘newbie’ who went to click on a ‘You Won’ pop up, and grabbed his hand. If I hadn’t been there…
Many people don’t know the dangers.
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yes the joy of just being is limitless on earth and in heaven those who nice are loved very where on earth. If you are nice to a dog or an cat or to any other animal he or she will be your fast friend looking at this people will wonder.
I think e must be nice o everyone living among the people, beasts and birds. I have see many people have tamed animals as lions, and snakes,…the owner is nice to them the beast is nice to the owner.
Give love and take love works on earth but those who give hate receive hate in exchange is wonderful law. Tame dog it will be your best friend at home and out of home. It will save you from enemies while walking and attacking at home and on the road.
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If you are nice, many people will respond in niceness
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people in politics are so nice… until they get elected
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Being ni e to people is the best thing that you could do for yourself. It doesn’t cost you anything it just brings blessings. But again being too nice is another story, people will take you for granted when you are too nice. There are people who are usually just cut out for doing such things, they don’t really care whether they are hurting someone else or not. I used to be a victim some time back, I used to be so nice to people. Ever accommodating, regardless of whether you are my relative or not. But one day i really thought about my goodness and kindness towards people and to be honest I didn’t like it. It is at that time that I realized how so many people toil advantage of my being nice. I had to tone it down for my own good. Have you ever taken someone in, took care of them, shared your good with them and all that? Then the same people decide to show you attitude. I can remember there if my friends who did that to me after all I had done for them. But I let it slide and decided am not going to kick them away from my list of friends coz that wouldn’t change anything. So be nice but not too nice
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K and I had the same discussion last week. I am NOT going to let other people set my agenda. I am going to be nice and smile, and when, (not if) someone tries to take advantage, I just remove myself.
There’s a worker who begged me some money and I gave it to her. She now wants to be every week. Well… I come late now so she can’t get me alone.
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To tell someone that they are “too nice” has got to be the best compliment I’ve ever heard! 🙂
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That was my impression
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it is a delight with being or working with someone who is nice.I think if everyone was nice the world would be a beter place. No more wars or poverty just peacefull co-existence. But to bad the world isn’t like that so being to nice can get you shamed out of your money or just taken advantage off. Which is awfull and affect your belief in mankind, truly saddening.
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As I mentioned in response; there’s a person, ‘L’ who wants to take advantage. So… my strategy? I come late and she can’t get me alone, she’d have to come right out in front of everyone and beg me money. She won’t.
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Being nice is to tolerate others and tolerate means letting others be nasty 😀 Should we tolerate is the question I have always asked.
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The exact thing happened. I looked at the other person who had been nasty. Blinked my eyes. Walked Away.
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I wish we could teach these younger adults who are parents the importance of always trying to be nice first. It seems even with my own adult children, that if something does not go the way they think it should, there first reaction is to always get mad. I try to tell them that there is almost always anther solution to whatever it is that causes them anger & usually the situation works outs better than the original plan. It seems like they burn way too much energy being mad first.
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I was lucky, my ‘baby’ knows how to look at someone, give them a brilliant smile, and just stand there. She’s better than I am at it.
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We’ve all been in meetings where participants are unprepared, people veer off-track, and the topics discussed are a waste of the team’s time. These problems — and others like it — stem from poor agenda design. An effective agenda sets clear expectations for what needs to occur before and during a meeting.
It helps team members prepare, allocates time wisely, quickly gets everyone on the same topic, and identifies when the discussion is complete. If problems still occur during the meeting, a well-designed agenda increases the team’s ability to effectively and quickly address them.
Team meeting time is expensive and difficult to schedule. It should mainly be used to discuss and make decisions on issues that affect the whole team — and need the whole team to solve them. These are often ones in which individuals must coordinate their actions because their parts of the organization are interdependent.
They are also likely to be issues for which people have different information and needs. Examples might include: How do we best allocate shared resources? How do we reduce response time? If the team isn’t spending most of the meeting talking about interdependent issues, members will disengage and ultimately not attend.
This serves two purposes. First, it requires you to do the math — to calculate how much time the team will need for introducing the topic, answering questions, resolving different points of view, generating potential solutions, and agreeing on the action items that follow from discussion and decisions.
Leaders typically underestimate the amount of time needed. If there are ten people in your meeting and you have allocated ten minutes to decide under what conditions, if any,
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Yes, people migrate from one country to an other country for a better life but all attempt illegally that is negative point of entrance into another country. Every year thousands of people cross the border of USA and UK, Italy and Germany…but most of the people could not reach the destination and many of them arrested on the way.
An estimated 8.1 million are either working or looking for work. Some are paid in cash, but many illegal immigrants use fake Social Security numbers to secure jobs, and are thus U.S. taxpayers. Half of America’s illegal immigrants are thought to pay income taxes in some form: in 2010, they contributed an estimated $10.6 billion in state and local taxes, and $13 billion in Social Security.
Contrary to common perception, illegal immigrants don’t qualify for public benefits like welfare, food stamps, and Medicaid, as these programs require proof of legal immigration status. However, the children of undocumented immigrants do receive certain benefits, in the form of public schooling and emergency medical care; if they’re born in the U.S., they qualify for welfare benefits too.
The Heritage Foundation has calculated that the average illegal immigrant household costs taxpayers $14,387 a year, though many economists have questioned the assumptions used to reach that figure.
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The fact that has taken Europe a few years to catch is that many so called refugees are not … that the dangers of open borders has been proven.. and that it is always useless to implement patches on poor policy.
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Yes there are countless peoples who are living on earth but the cause of very person to be fatty is separate actually fatness is due to fat gathering around first your waist and slowly and slowly the whole body becomes fatty not due to diabetes but due to lack of essential mineral in the body of which low burning fire melts fat from the whole body.
On the the second cause of fatness is also this that peoples drink too much cold water that freezes everything of human body blood, fat and other chemical compound all these factors promote fatness.
To avoid fatness eat all grains, dry fruits, sea foods and all vegetables its minerals will melt the whole fat from your body through perspiration.
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Although I didn’t mention it here, there is a genetic factor. People who are not used to particular foods will have a reaction. If for thousands of years your ancestors ate fish, now, these ‘flaps’ are difficult to digest.
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This is a very interesting topic. This takes place not only in Tonga, but also in regions like the Caribbean. We can see a pattern where the diet then and now varies. As centuries pass, there as been a break down in diet. with the improvement of technology comes more and more processed foods which is one of the main cause of many illnesses. For example, in the Caribbean, where as diets usually include many ground provisions, today, the diet mainly consist of rice and fatty meats; and ground provisions are now processed into all types of chips. Like Konga, the poorer set of persons in the society consume fatty meats filled with hormone boosters, while the higher class consume a healthier diet as they can afford it. In other wards, standard of living is also another factor which affects the the health of a nation.
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You know what you’re saying. We never had diabetes in Ja. We ate ‘food’, that yam, banana, breadfruit, cassava, and vegetables and very little meat. Now, people stop using coconut oil, buy the nasty cheap vegetable oil, eat all the cheap processed meat and fast food, and diabetes and obesity sky rocket.
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It is really good to know still there are some places where people are not affected by food stuff. Eating vegetable oil, banana,cassava, are really good items for food. Why people are not preferring Coconut Oil is really a pity. It has got many benefits. It nourishes hair and the skin.
If anybody is having muscle pains in the knee area it gives lot of a permanent cure from the pains.
Add two spoons of Coconut Oil to a hot tea and take it. Within 2-3 hours all muscle pains in the knee area will disappear. But one should take it regularly till the pains vanish completely. This is the benefit of coconut oil.
It is really sad to know that such valuable stuff is not being preferred by the people and they are going for unhealthy processed meat which only increases the fat content in the body.
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What I understood is that the Government is exporting those which are good for people and importing those which are not beneficial to the health. This is the tragedy prevailing in almost all countries of the world.
Fat is accumulated in the body mainly due to: 1. not following regular diet 2. preferring junk food 3. improper / irregular exercises 4. as per the recent research report Depression.
I want to keep the information on the above separately.
Now the point is why the people are preferring such junk, fast, and stored foods in their diet. Earlier they were eating vegetables, fruits, and other food having the good amount of coconut oil. These are very useful in reducing the fat content i the body. We can not blame the Government time and again . The people must realize what we are eating and how the food habits have been changed and how they are affecting our health.
The parents should not allow such food in their diet. They will be very tasty. One can have them just for a change once in a while. But together with the local diet.
An increase of 15% in the Diabetes rate is not an ordinary thing. People should take it to the notice of the Government and see that such foods are restricted to the maximum.
Coke is another hazardous drink. I totally hate it.
They do not serve any purpose but for cleaning the kitchen Sink.
Whenever I find my Sink sticky I pour a bottle of soft drink. Within minutes the sink becomes fresh and gives a good look.People are using such drinks and consuming them as a luxury and fashionable drink. This is really pitiable to see these people drinking those harmful drinks.
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If a person dares to take advantage of and implant a false memory into another person’s mind, then they are not a “psycho-therapist”. They’re just an evil bastard! Well! You can’t call it therapy!
But I’d like to say this, although I’m not a professional in the field of psychiatry or psychology. I believe what the Psalmist wrote when he said “We are fearfully and wonderfully made.” I don’t believe our Creator fashioned us in such a way that it can be so simple and easy to take advantage of our minds.
There was also a doctor who thought that criminal violent tendencies could be cured by a simple operation on the brain. The operations were a success until one of his patients killed him!
So I’m not at all convinced about these “false memories” or the results of the experiment that were reported.
Just call me a “Doubting Thomasina”. 🙂
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Dr. Elizabeth Loftus; the preeminanet expert on memory…(it’s her ‘white car’ and ‘lost in the mall’ experiments which have been most useful), has proven, time and again, that false memories can be created and held onto in a process…(I think I’ll write another article on the process).. what I found so interesting was the litigation.
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The same person who can prove a memory is “false” ought to be able reveal a memory that’s “true”. That’s all I’m sayin’. Cause in The End, what good is a false memory? It ain’t no better than a lie! Just sayin’.
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It is not that you remember wearing red to Pat’s wedding, but in truth you wore blue. It is that you never went to Pat’s wedding. You never went but someone you have been convinced that you were there. And you hold to that memory so tightly that even if you are shown photographs and you are in none, you keep saying; “No! I was there!” And when it is proven that when Pat was getting married you were at the supermarket, you still keep trying to believe you were there.
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Human memory neither is false nor true. It is actually a empty tablet on which we write what we want through our good or bad deeds. Or we cram something some time we forget or and sometime learn by rote as some people cannot recall childhood events accurately and some cannot.
It is not the fault of memory but the fault of human being’s memory disk of our brain becomes full or overloads the stuffs.
Actually memory is the ability to store past incidents and its demonstration becomes on the brain screen. When we say that its memory is weak does not mean the memory is weak but things are stored in memory but the mind screen on which memory reflects past events is defective.
Nothing can be wasted in human memory if it is stored once it is our brain or mind fault that does not show us.
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You say right that there are many sites that working on internet nut why should we write on that site that does not pay the writer I sign in Niume but I find no option if the writers will be paid ad LB pays us. I think its is fake site for the writers/
The writer must write on the sites that pay the writer as google adsense, hubpages.. and many more…Niume is a site of question and answer as Cora is also the site of question and answer no profit no loss but waste of time.
I think LB is one of the best sites that pays.
Most sites will give you some bounty when you rope in another user. None pays you, up front, more money than they pay for your writing except Niume.
As freaky as that is… because imagine, if I write nothing but bring in 100 people I get $100….?
This Flipboard thing… nah… I don’t trust it at all