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I’m sorry, this title made me chuckle! It made me think of the stereotype of unilingual Americans who, when confronted by people who don’t speak English, just raise their voices!
In my experience, there are times to speak up and times to speak softly. Both approaches work, but in very different circumstances. Our greatest elders are often very unassuming personalities who sit off to the side and speak very softly.
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There is time to sow and there is a time to reap just there is a time to speak with anger and there is a time to speak politely. I say that life is game of time and time is everything and nothing is out of time on earth and in space.
Lips and tongues lie. But actions never do. No matter what words are spoken, actions betray the truth of everyone’s heart.Jesus Christ said by their fruits ye shall know them,’ not by their disclaimers.
When someone has gifted you with one act of love after another, it’s only fair to ignore their bad moods and concentrate exclusively in the many things they’ve done for you. Acts and feelings should always prevail over moods and words
The more deeper you think, the more silent you become. You understand the reasons behind the reason. It may not necessarily mean you are short of words. You however know what ignorance can trigger and how to deal with ignorance and purpose. The timeliness of your word is surely on point
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Yes. It is always the will power of the individual which makes him stand out in all adverse circumstances.
There are people who do like others prospering in their life. They disappoint them, they discourage them.
But, one should not pay attention to theirs
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When we speak and try to air our feelings there will always be hecklers whom attention should not be paid attention to. and must pull on to reach the goal
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Think positive is the way to go. Nothing is given to us on a platter that has no obstacles. Obstacles could be tackled if we have a positive attitude that nothing is impossible.
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Some may have it easier than others but of course we’ll have to earn our keep. The key is to understand no matter what each person does there’s always a critic and we’ll need to find the best ways to deal with the critics. There’s plenty of ways to find peace no matter what’s said or done. Isn’t there?
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ou can never create prosperity by talking or thinking about your lack of money. This is wasted thinking and cannot bring you abundance. Dwelling on lack only creates more lack. Poverty thinking brings more poverty. Gratitude thinking brings abundance.
There are a few negative affirmations and attitudes that are guaranteed to keep prosperity beyond your reach-for example: “I never have enough money!” That’s a terrible affirmation to use. Another unproductive one is: “Money goes out faster than it comes in.” This is poverty thinking of the worst kind.
The Universe can only respond to what you believe about yourself and your life. Examine whatever negative thoughts you have about money, and then decide to release them and let them go. They haven’t served you well in the past and will not serve you well in the future.
Sometimes people think that their financial problems will be solved by inheriting money from a long-lost relative or winning the lottery. Sure, you can fantasize about such things, or even buy an occasional lottery ticket for fun, but please don’t put a lot of attention on acquiring money in this way.
This is scarcity thinking, or poverty thinking, and it won’t bring lasting good into your life. Anyway, when it comes to the lottery, winning seldom brings positive changes into anyone’s life. In fact, within two years, most lottery winners have lost almost all of their money, have nothing to show for it, and are often worse off financially than before.
The problem with money acquired in this way is that it rarely solves any problems. Why? Because it doesn’t involve changing your consciousness. In effect, you’re saying to the Universe: “I don’t deserve to have good in my life except by a fluke chance.”
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Sorry. Was unable to continue reading the comment. It appears to not have any encouraging words. A bit negative but each person has their opinion. Hopefully matters will get better. Just assuming either a bad day was experienced or perhaps these are the words used often. Hope not but do appreciate the comments. Blessings. Said That.
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The saying ‘After the storm comes the calm and after the calm comes the sunshine’ is common in our household.
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Yes, it true that there will storm and after this will calmness just in human life first pain and after this calmness forever. For example, when we ponder over the labor pain after this this is endless pleasure for parents.
Pain and pleasure, light and darkness, storm and calmness, hate and love walk always side by side in human life. As it turns out, while human beings want to both avoid pain and gain pleasure, they will do more for one than the other. Avoiding immediate pain is much more motivating than gaining immediate pleasure. If there is a lion running after you versus a suitcase full of money in front of you, which would motivate the average human to act quickly?
Avoiding a certain amount of immediate pain wins over gaining immediate pleasure every time. Studies have demonstrated time and time again that people will do much more to avoid short term pain than they will to gain short term pleasure.
As time goes on, our perception of pain and pleasure changes. Every decision you make results in at least one or more of the following: short term pain, long term pain, short term pleasure or long term pleasure. Short term always wins over long term unless there is a substantial amount of pain or pleasure associated with the long term avoidance of pain or gain of pleasure involved. Pain, or the level of perceived pleasure decreases with time.
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Indeed, sometimes the stormy moments we go through in life does not mean that we were bad people or that we are destined for destruction. Instead, the storms may be necessary to cleanse us what obstacles may be holding us back from doing good and being our best self. Sometimes the storms help us to rid ourselves of negative people who only seek to do us harm.
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There are really people who will never accept us no matter what we do. Before, I always think what others will think of me whenever I do certain things. But then I realized that some people, no matter how good I am to them will never accept me just because I’m me. That’s when I decided to ignore what people might think of me. As long as I do the right things and I am happy, the thoughts of other people will not matter to me anymore.
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My motto is “Love yourself and help save planet earth” When we love ourselves we will see to it that everything around is conducive to our living and that is how the planet earth will be taken care of.
And as for others accepting us that is not always possible. In Chemistry we learn how two acids clash while an alkali and an acid produces results.
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What you are saying is very true. In life we will always have people who like us and those that dislike us or even hate us. We were born to have friends and foes in this life and they all have a part to play in our growth as people. We learn certain things from them that will propel us into doing the right things. And our enemies will put us certain situations that will make us change how we think and how we treat others. So for me I don’t expect to be loved by everyone around me because if everyone was good to me how will I get to know that I am doing something wrong or I am hurting somebody else’s feelings. Those are some good points you have shared.
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I think accept everything on earth keeping in mind to repair it or correct it or mend if has any flaw. It my principle of life. I accept many friends that had many flaws but slowly and slowly I mend their negative trends into positive trends.
If you positive everything will be positive that will come in your way. Because it a solid law that salt makes salt if you put any thing in salt for a long time.
“People tend to be generous when sharing their nonsense, fear, and ignorance. And while they seem quite eager to feed you their negativity, please remember that sometimes the diet we need to be on is a spiritual and emotional one. Be cautious with what you feed your mind and soul. Fuel yourself with positivity and let that fuel propel you into positive action.”
― Steve Maraboli, Unapologetically You: Reflections on Life and the Human Experience
the writer has said plainly everything in simple words so that everybody could understand it.
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Great write up
One true thing to considered in this life is believe in yourself and you will achieve anything you desired. You just have to put some strong determination, perseverance, and passion to be able for you to succeed. Success is long road to travel for those who want to reach its glory. It takes time, to learn, to do the hard work, and failures to encounter, to be the best that you can be that will mold you into a better character. Remember, it is failure, that drives a man to success.
Yes you say right that life management is an art just as you can marriage easily but to run the marriage circle is an art. To become a politician is easy but to run the country is an art. Love is easy but to run with beloved is art.
Most people struggle with balance in their lives and are often stressed when trying to manage all the different areas of life – whether it be your career, business, finances, relationships, health, fitness, family, friends, etc… that’s why it’s imperative to have a system that you can follow so that you can really manage all the areas of your life effectively and make continual progress towards where you want to be.
To manage life you can act upon these five principles as
1. Build downtime into your schedule.
2. Drop activities that sap your time or energy.
3. Rethink your errands.
4. Get moving.
5. Remember that a little relaxation goes a long way.
Don’t assume that you need to make big changes to bring more balance to your life. Brooks recommends setting realistic goals, like leaving the office earlier 1 night per week.
“Slowly build more activities into your schedule that are important to you,” he says. “Maybe you can start by spending an hour a week on your hobby of carpentry, or planning a weekend getaway with your spouse once a year.”
I am that person who got angry easily when tired or stress.
For that discussion, I must say it’s wonderful. It reminds me how to manage my anger and stress.
Thumbs up for that great idea.