I don’t believe I’ve ever heard that expression. “The more you hate, the more you love.” But it doesn’t make any sense to me. My late mother used to say: “Hate is a mighty strong word. Don’t use it!” Quite frankly I think the world would be much better off if there were not haters and everybody loved everybody! I’m talking about relationships between people. I’m not talking about hating certain foods! Like licorice. 🙂 😀

@Treathyl FOX , hehehehe, it is hard by the way to love the one we hate. I had experience hating someone my best friend, classmate and neighbor , she tempted my ex-bf despite my ex did not ride on her desire, but I hated her for she did not respect me and treasure the friendship.At least through this blog, it is proven this as loving someone hated much, so ironical, hehehe.Thanks.

Hahaha. Reading the title itself made me remember one of my experienced. I can remember that I set a qualities (not good qualites) of a boy that I should not become a boyfriend but 3 years later I have realized that my partner had those qualities. But it is fine at all because he has a good attitude anyway.

The post title really bothers me. The more you hate, the more you love? Reading it again and it still makes no sense to me. That’s like saying the more crimes you commit, the more outstanding and upright of a citizen you’ll be. (O.o) (???) In the Christian teachings, hate can lead to and is as bad as murder. Hate is not a good thing! Love is everything and way stronger than hatred. So you EX hurt you. That’s a fact. But you’re not so much hating as you are hurting. Hate. Hurt. Those are two entirely different emotions. So the expression is really very misleading. Especially to young people.

OK. That’s my two cents. I won’t say any more about this. Just felt the need to give it one more try.

The feeling is so sickening if knew a family member to retire broke. It could be unbelievable for he has a good job in Saudi as an accountant but sad he married a bad wife and my brother too so in love with her and he never had the chance in himself to sense the immoral doings of his wife. he never listened to his family about how he was made deaf and mute by his wife. He had made a wrong choice and a wrong girl. Yesterday can never be repaired.

Sad to know about your brother. At times, we think that we have made some good decision in our life, but we later on find our life has gone out of control. Bad people take advantage of good people’s love and concern, betraying them also.

Almost everyone working here in the Philippines have the same fate that includes my parents. They are both on their 60’s in two to three years they will be retiring. They already spend their future pension by having advance loans in the bank. There is a really serious problem to our system.

@PEEUSH TRIKHA, That is so true, no matter how we want to make our fate perfect, but there are forces that drive us to forget what we had planned. It is also because humans are weak and always subject to commit mistake, no perfect humans, but somehow, if we want to make everything happens, it wojuld if we do and strive to accomplish and achieve what has been dreamed of for future sake and better life. So sad, my brother nice and bright, became dull and lame like because of love. That is why i never agree that life will be made beautiful if we listen to the beating of our heart; it is proven false.

@Seth,Oh sorry my dear. What your parents were doing was wrong. I had known someone who loaned in advance his pension worth 1.5 million for a business he wanted to open and have his nephew to run the said business. At the end, no profit found, no money found in his band as what was agreed to deposit the profit to his bank account.Then time came he retired and his nephew left the country bringing with him almost one million. That person I knew became my superior for he was also a Doctor of Philosophy, yet his brilliance was not used wisely. he had the full confidence and trust to his nephew without remembering and thinking that we cannot even trust ourselves, so how much more to a relative.

My boss, died in pain for he did not have money to send himself to the doctor of his sickness Lung cancer.He became a smoker after knowing that loss of his financial.After 6 years of smoking, he was sick of lung cancer. He smoke non-stop, chain smoker.he wanted to forget yesterday that can never come back.

Every dream and plan in life will surely shatter into pieces. There are instances when you are there only to feel the ache when a sickness is on you and it would take months and years to regain the health. The years to suffer is not easy to deal. There might be many nights hard for you to sleep for you cannot believe your life seems broken in several ways. But because of faith, you are still hoping one day you will rise again from where you fall.
Let us not give up no matter how hard life is and no matter how difficult the burden to carry on our shoulder, let us always be positive for positive results always follow.

Yes and not to talk about the con-artist and scammers who rip our people of to fill there pockets and leave you and your family with nothing! Than you have to see your babys go hungry! That make me so angry and they usely target poor people who is desperate for some extra cash.

@Leonora fourie , Those people desperate of extra cash may turn to relatives to borrow and return when they can find a better income or work harder. Those who turned themselves to illegal ways will never have peace.

As long as we live, there is always hope. This poem gives insights to the readers to be strive more if feel you are in need more.There are many ways and reasons why we have to surpass life full of obstacles, simply because through it, we will become stronger.

There are many jobless this time and the reasons are so numerous and varied according to the personal encounter of the job seeker. There are also many having been employed for many years, yet landed to despair because of their company that loses gain and customers, so no choice but to shut down or retrench many employees.
I have so many friends that became jobless after their school was sold to other schools.Though they receive separation pay , but the pay cannot sustain for years unlike if having a job, there is always money in time of need. It is a very sickening reality if by click of a second you become jobless, so money less too. How could you enjoy such situation if your mind keeps on wandering the where to go and what to apply especially if you are at the time of retrenchment 45 years old. The comonay is very bad if just close a company like that having many put to a hanging situation.