Maternity and fake glamor expectations.

When I was thinking about what makes a man a male, with women everything seemed easier. From the very beginning of the history, the mankind has not proposed anything new to them and the mother with the baby in her arms painting has always been and remains the most remarkable painting of all the nations. Exceptions can be found maybe only in those nations that have already released the dying off and self-destruction mechanisms. Very often, a woman, even greatly wanted the child, appears being unprepared for what actually is motherhood. Already the first days practically demonstrate that motherhood – is primarily self-refusal for the sake of another human being.

Why am I talking about this? It all came from forums of moms. Mothers’ forums on the internet are full of planning or already pregnant women. These forums are interesting to read as a treasure of life stories of various women characters. I found what grabbed my attention – complains about change of appearance of pregnant women and just after birth. Changes in appearance – a lot. Reading such statements, still tried to understand – what is happening with those women? Appearance problems during pregnancy can really spoil the mood. But the essence is not that these changes ending life, the essence lies in the women’s priorities.

The child really requires certain sacrifices: you have less time for yourself, and initially you have not any time at all. You cannot eat what you want, to do the usual things, constant tension and you cannot go for a walk with friends or organize a shopping or go to your hairdresser. You cannot even to have a time for quiet slow meal, not to mention the good long sleep.

Everyone has something that he will never agree to give away. That loss will take away from him the meaning of life. Modern young woman accustom to think in egoistic templates (wants to succeed – climb over the heads. Use the men! There are no friends, only contenders!). They are educated by vulgar reality shows for teenagers and glamorous magazines, not to mention teens advertising targeted on their complexes, and they very quickly caught what and how.

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