Many people probably at some point in the life stage dream on developments and would like to be a better father, spouse, manager or simply better themselves. But even those who are looking for ways to change – read books, attend lectures, seminars, courses, or even find a personal teacher often are stuck in vicious circle and does not reach the promised breakthrough. People tend to blame the public advices or various authors proposed methods in inefficiency and lower their hands or going to look for new ways and new magical leader who would trust. Better knowledge of psychology, self-knowledge may help for the growth, but it will be powerless, if man only collects information and does not take action.
Why we do not do what we already know? Often prevents us inflexible truths that it is hard to implement significant behavioral changes and if we will not be willing honestly, no one can force us to change.
Improper internal beliefs lead to failure before it happens. They block the long-term changes and are used as an excuse. If you truly desire to change, it is important to recognize in yourself those not helping thoughts and to doubt them. Only then it will be possible to achieve significant change, and change your behavior even in mature age.
Implementation of the changes that we are keeping in our mind as a specific image is a process. It requires vigilance and careful introspection. It is necessary to keep mechanically repeating the process. Change will become as constant behavior only if we start repeating it again and again. We can initially reject it as too simple and not dignified, even unworthy action to us. More than anything else, the process refreshes instinct in us to try again and again, how it are doing little children, but, unfortunately, is gradually disappearing, when we get to know the joy of success and fear of failure.
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I think that we are all born with certain inbound characteristics, like the temper and that characteristics can grow or disappear depending on the people we are surrounded with. I was always surrounded with the loving family and us always supported each other in times of the greater need. But, as I grow older I find out that the certain situation causes people to behave weird and unexpected and sometimes people watch over own benefits and not if they are doing something in benefit of their beloveds.
One can change as he matures; however there could be so many factors affecting him why he refuse to change. It depends on his outlook in life.