You ever thought why practically so many women in the west part of the world so don’t want to stay a long time with the kids at home? Why for the social status, they are ready to give their children to other people, Why women are more concerned about fashion and gossips than about pedagogy and a healthy diet?
Why the family does not take the most important place in their lives? Why their future and self-realization, their desires are more important than children’s future?
Looking at some women, it seems that they are unable to be happy mothers, housewives, they see little point in these things. They do not want to devote more time as possible to children. They do not want every day to bake cakes and sing lullabies.
They do not see the values, importance in such life. The family, motherhood, loyalty, self-sacrifice, femininity… Does it have the same value as it was in the past?
Our mind was crammed by guides – learn, study, otherwise you will become a housewife! And it sounded so ominous that really arose desire to eat away the granite of science. After all, the most important – the Diploma, a good job and intoxicating career. Or at least find some work, after all, you need to take care about yourself. And thus we fostered inside ourselves some sort of ideas and dreams about the future, about life, about life goals.
After all, in order to stay a long time with the child, to play with him, to take care about him, you need to like doing it. In order to cook cookies, to make a lot of different food, you need to like doing this. To give some your time for home – decorate, clean the house, create the cozy atmosphere, you must to like to do so. You need to love the kids more, than you love yourself and your dreams.
All this mother inculcates to her daughter. It is the first and most important teacher. She refers the true life landmarks. She teaches love. She teaches to love female mission. She explains how important it is to be a wife and mother. She teaches us to love.
And if the daughter practically has not seen her mother, happy staying at home, and even if saw, it completely did not inspire her for the marital happiness, so how daughter can learn all this by self?
Maybe such women are doomed to quickly squander their love, as they were taught only how to do a career. They were taught that the word success has meaning only outside the home. And then quietly cry for the destruction of their marriages, for alienated children and some strange feeling that someone sometimes deceived them.
The way out – to learn. Learning to be a mother, a wife, a woman. Little by little, bit by bit. Learn to look at everything with new eyes. Loving, feminine and kind eyes.
Learn to love. Learn bigger part of the time to think not about the job, but about your family. Learn to appreciate family, husband, children. Help them to become better, to unfold like the petals of a flower, warmed by your love.
We need to learn to smile and more embrace our children. We need to look deeper and understand that we not just grow a person – we shape his inner world, a worldview, life provisions. Much of what he received in childhood, will remain for the rest of life.
And we need to make an excellent mother and wife’s career. And if we even do not try to climb this career’s ladder, then the frustration will become an integral part of our senility. Because missed opportunities and offcast responsibility will produces very bitter fruits in the future.
The most important thing is to keep in mind that everything will bear its fruit in own time. What it will be? It much depends on you. From your attitude in life, values which we disseminate in this world.
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It is so sad to know that some women today does not like the idea of raising their own children. What would happen to their children, will they know who their parents are? They have the right to know. They have the right to have a decent home, a decent family.