Is It True That In Every Man’s Success There I Woman Behind?

I often hear people say this line that in every man’ success there is a woman behind. Why, can’t man succeed without a woman? In my opinion answers vary and should have some time to read this, you may implore your basic understanding as to why man becomes strong when there is a woman in his life that serves as his inspiration. There might be many assumptions and refutations if this is true or just a mere fabrication of fervid imagination hehehe. It might be by coincidence that justifies the contention of the people especially in the politics that in every man’s success there is a woman behind. If this is true, therefore, a woman is stronger than man? LOL. Is man weak if there is no woman? Can’t he live without a woman n his life? Well, I might be far now to the issue. Centuries after centuries we noticed that men became inspired due to a woman. Just imagined Edgar Allan Poe after his wife’s death he lived in misery intoxicating himself and his literary works were all dedicated to his wife. Before his wife came into his life, his mother was his inspiration, but his mother died at her early age, thus making his life in instant agony. He was inspired again when he met his wife, and they had a short-lived romantic affairs for his wife died at an early age, thus led him to gradually decline his health until he died.

In the country where I live, Philippines, there was also a very strong man Marcos, the former President of the Republic of the Philippines whose life had become the headlines of our country and the world. The only issue I would like to share is another evidence of the people’s conclusive statement that in every man’s success there is a woman behind him. Strong man Marco’s wife former First Lady Imelda Romualdez Marcos was told to be behind the successes of Marcos. Imelda who is now 82 years old influenced her husband to her ideals of her caprices. Maybe you have heard about the billion worth of Imelda’s shoes and jewelry. Former Marcos became stronger as the people said because of his wife.

Even to ourselves we become stronger because of the woman behind us, our mother. I have to assert that our mother is our first and foremost the inspiration in our lives. In fact, there was a story that was narrated to me by my elder sister that a son has to decide as to who he would save in torrential flood, his mother or wife. The son answered that it will be his mother he would save for he only has one mother and he came from his mother’s womb; whereas, a wife could be replaced ,LOL. But other son concluded that he would save his wife if with her their baby for he surely believes that his mom will never allows his grandchild to get drowned. The case is so complicated though. If you are a man asks yourself now if you happen to read my blog if true that a woman is behind you in your success. But why can’t an issue be fair by saying in every woman’s success, there is man behind me, LOL. I think there are so many instances that prove man’s proofs that it is true that in his success, there is a woman that inspires him. In our family for example, my brother likes to work hard, to do over time work because there is someone that brings inspiration and happiness to his tiring and sometimes boring life. Maybe they are afraid to be called incomplete without a woman to be shared with love, hope and dream to have someday a happy and complete family.

I do not know if this still true this time for there are so many famous people despite wife beautiful , trustworthy , responsible and down to earth when in love, but still they succeeded in their cheat to the wife. Just think of Tiger Woods, the world’s famous golfer , they had children and wife a celebrity, but he cheated his wife putting her in so much pain of the immeasurable agony and injury of insult. Temptation triumphed because he tolerated it due to his wealth, but he lost a family.

The world is so big for us to gather data as to who those are having this sincerest feeling to consider their love their inspiration and everything made real because of the special someone. How I wish to have someone to make me behind him in his success, Lol. Every day there is tomorrow and every tomorrow there is another day so with life and relationship. Whatever will be the reason why make a woman your inspiration, oh well, it’s you who know it much better than me and others. Somehow, those who are not yet gifted with the right woman hopes to meet her someday. The success he has obtained serves as the foundation of a happy life should he meet someday the lady of his dream. It is normal by the way to fall in love and make the love the sole inspiration. It is so true that each one of us needs an inspiration. What happens to life without inspiration in all the ways and activities? Life will surely be boring, but I think there are practical people who prefer to be alone and have their own family their inspiration. In fact, they are happy to serve their parents for their parents are always there and never leave for better or worse; whereas, a wife may leave a husband if fails to give what she wants in her life. There are material girls, so boys you should prepare yourselves in case you are madly in love to that material girl, rest assured your savings will disappear and put to waste hehehe. Life is what we make it so no matter what as long as you are happy with it; you never care whoever bullies at you.

Lastly, should there be a woman behind your success that is fine for without an inspiration your life might be in disorder for no one to stop you and delight your tiresome days. There is always happiness in the heart when there is someone you love. There is always reason to wake up the next day because of your love and without her your life will be in constant blue, so cheers for your love that is always behind you in everything you do. That is life you have to thank for.

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