Is it true can be in the middle between the objections?

Sometimes I am lost what I should believe. Is there only one truth or we can choose what we want to believe? For instance, one source says that you need to work a job you love. Another source claims that you can love a person or a pet, but not a work. You must look to the work in practice way: how much you earn money from your job and how quick you can climb the career ladder.

If turn to the Vedic wisdom, we can say that women in general do not have to work and build a career. She is created to cherish the family fireplace, to be a light and humble fairy, to inspire her man and to be perfect mother; she and only she should grow the children. But, wait, the India girls in Vedic culture full time were taken care of their fathers and brothers, and later of a man, and if he dies – son or any other relative took care about women. How it would be today, if a man of a woman, home fairies without work experience and skills accidentally dies or remains incapacitated?

Continuing the theme of femininity, it often speaks about the importance of wearing long skirts and dresses, have long hair, cherish the elegance. It stimulates the feminine energy that makes life easier. A view is really nice, humble and represented as a guarantee of success, but to be honest, the tests of break out of myself the “real woman”, each time ended in fatigue and disgust the uncertainty and the ensuing consequences as, for example, attracted “real man”.

Here we can already to speak about the fact that only through the pain of something people learn and evolve. Well, here’s one version of how the world is set as a suffering place. Another version – paradise and hell are in all of us, we choose ourselves, what our life is. And spiritual suffering has nothing to do with development, suffering choose the people embarrassed by false pride.

And how about compassion? They say that to feel compassion for others is bad because it does not solve neither misery nor disability, or yet something else. Another version – need to be merciful, to feel compassion for all beggars in both spiritual and material level.

What is with the purpose of life? They say, you need to set goals, to break it down into smaller tasks, be disciplined, purposeful. But it also said that you need to plan for as little as possible, because the plans closes the door to what actually has to happen, what life sends itself. Already I hear laughs of those who tend to plan and achieve – without plans and discipline, they should not have now anything.

And so, what we should believe?

Sometimes I am naive and emphatic when the desire to eliminate the diversity, to compress the world to one truth only and put in one frame. Would be helpful more relax, rely on the flow and act without fear of making mistakes. Mistake is also an illusion. Mistake is just a unique experience.

It is not necessary and not even has to believe in everything, fanatically cling to an idea, and to deny and blame the other one. There is no need to idealize anything or to blame and punish yourself for the slow development.

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