So, am I happy? At present, I do not try to think about this question, not to evaluate my status at any moment – I’m happy or not, because I suspect that such questioning interfere with the feel of happiness.
Happiness is not any logical game, where we write down the pros and cons and then decide – I am happy with the result of 60:40. This is the natural human condition – to be happy or unhappy. If the person still starts to write down the pros and cons, then something is wrong already, it is not clear what a person lacks for to feel happiness and he is searching for this “something”. For example, it is possible to conclude that the pluses outweigh the minuses and theoretically you are happy, but still not feel that happiness. If you feel that something is wrong, then you do not need to think longer, but need to take action.
Can be otherwise also – someone can say that you do not have money, you do not have car, you do not practice yoga – so, you should be unhappy, but a man still feels happy.
Happiness is not just a victory or defeat; there are only two theoretical extremes between which life is going on. Perhaps the secret of happiness is to be able to be happy even when you are happy just 1%? It is very simple – stop to see things from happiness or pleasure scales, stop to put the pros and cons, stop comparing yourself with others, but focus on what you have.
But do we then not lose touch with the world? Would we not look like the freaks fallen from the moon with pink glasses? Losing touch with the reality we get into trouble, lose balance and fall into the swamp. So, perhaps the search of happiness is meaningless? Probably it is.
What to do then? If you are lost, then you should look for. Where to look? What to look for? Look for your way? Your vocation?
Nothing like this, it just seems to be that only mystical way we must to go. The real truth is that we are in an open area and every taken step is a new way. I agree that it is difficult to move without knowing your way, scared to go without knowing what lies in the future. But standing on the spot is the reason why many people feel unhappy.
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