How to Deal With the Betrayal and Deception

A lot of people will find themselves being taken back by betrayal and deception. Some will expect certain individuals to be deceptive while others become deceptive due to desperation. No matter how or why a person displays deception, it can be difficult to believe, thoughts how could the individuals be so scandalous? Well, if there’s greed involved then there will be deception and betrayal, some love money more than people. “The need “to gain easily and not being concerned about how the money is being gained or who they’re hurting to gain. Some even risking their freedom in order to make a quick buck. Not really a buck but an expression.

The best way to manage being betrayed in someway is “to think” about Jesus Christ. Jesus Christ was betrayed by His followers. Jesus was hated and suffered but was willing to do so to save all. So therefore mankind will be willing to betray any person. They’ll turn away from family, friends, and etc for many different reasons. Some for mere pennies. Suppose considering getting out of whatever hole they’re in. Not realizing how they’re actions will cause deeper problems.

Being betrayed isn’t easy to deal with but the Bible does speak about how so many will be betrayed and by whom. Mothers will betray their daughter. Fathers will betray sons. The Children will betray their parents. Some may do so out of desperation. Trying to get out of one hole and creating more holes. Some never get over being betrayed. For some “the best move” is to move away from the toxicity. To take a different route in order to heal and feel free. It’s not easy being betrayed by a mother or any other person but one can heal.

Forgiveness is important and can sometimes be difficult to do. If there is none then one won’t be able “to rest.” There has to be forgiveness in order to be forgiven. Prayer helps to get over being betrayed. There is also professionals who can assist with the healing. Some dwell so much on being betrayed and that’s where the mind starts thinking about some form of retaliation. That’s why it’s so important to replace the negative thoughts with positive ones.

Some will never admit to their betrayal. Never admit to any wrong doing. There may be further actions to try and make their way out of the mess they’ve created. There may be more lies told and some will even continue to try and setup others in order to keep themselves from being imprisoned. Some are fighting for their freedom. Not considering anyone else but how they’ll be able to stay out of a cage. It’s really sad when some are willing to take their own child or children down in order to gain. Reading “the Bible helps to understand” why so many will become deceptive.

Evil certainly exist and coming into world has made so many become riddled with evilness. Some never turning back. Going so far into the darkness and not seeking the light. Some may not want to come back to the “light” because of not wanting to incur more responsibilities. That’s why some choose to block out certain events and information because of not wanting to deal with what they’ve should have dealt with long ago. Imagine being betrayed by so many. Can be difficult to even ponder but we’re in times of major darkness.

Forgiving the persons doesn’t mean that their behavior is condoned. It’s a way of releasing the pain. To allow healing to take place. For some getting over the betrayal will take a very long time. Some may want to hold on to the pain in order to feel something. God wanted each person to know that when the betrayal comes to not be dismayed because God will never forsake. When the mother or father betrays. God will take up His children. Some move away just to be in place of healing. To discover more and “find ways to live a more productive life.”

In Tupac’s case. The betrayal came from his inner circle. Never know where or when betrayal will creep up. That’s why it’s very important that each person examines who they’re allowing in their circle. Some betray because they’re forced to do so. Some do so in order to gain and some will do so in order to protect certain information from leaking out. Betrayal can produce anger. Anger can create more betrayal.

“Being Betrayed in Someway is not the end of the World. There has to be a Time of Healing and the Healing Must be Allowed in.” By: Tanikka Paulk

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