There are people you cannot believe always negative. It boils our blood for no matter how we explain this person never listens. He keeps on opposing and believing his own opinion and decision right. I think that is the flow of their brain always blue not red. In a family if there is a negative member you can never your brother or sister would agree with your plans. All assumed plans already have assumed negative results though not yet done. It happened to me sometimes in the past. I had many plans to open us a business life franchising Lotto. I already write the PCSO manager in our city, local that I would like to have a Lotto franchise and everything was set except the location for it bounced due the proximity of two Lotto outlets. I tried another location. The location requires only few square meters. I submitted a new sketch plan for the new prospective, only to feel the rage when my sister told me of many negative thoughts that this kind of business is risky, time consuming, cheating people, a sin and more. I overthrew all her negative contentions. I felt discouraged actually not that I was carried by her negative thoughts, but the manner how she talked to me insulting and as if cursing all my business plans. I cancelled the application formally and awarded the location to other applicants. After that incident, I never told her anything about my decisions and plans in life for instead of giving me her support, putting me down.
Why are there people like that negative and seemingly cursing? It affects our emotion and future plans. The best way possible is to avoid getting connected with negative people. Let us never be carried with the kind of attitude they have too annoying and disturbing to our day-to-day goals. That might be one factor that leads a person to be depressed because his mind is full of unhappy images all negative in contents. Perhaps they need to cure this to awaken them from disparity that locked their minds; thus, making the entire disposition all negative and conclusive to be true in what they see ‘per se’ in their cognitive domain. How should this be corrected and doctored? First, it is the person himself to highlight the movements of his memory confusing or not by transforming it to a better transparency performance to enhance perhaps insurmountable attitude that supports all strong feedback that converts the positive to negative. It must apply reverse psychology that detonates the aggressive mood to destroy the actual performance that seems showing a better result. This way, a person can gradually elaborate the images that like to transform negative to positive. What is required is submissive reformation of the actuality that exits truly to human and it must lodge only to those mind ready to accept new performance of thinking that now becomes brighter and ready to admit best results all the time displayed in his brain.
On the other hand, we must not despise people having negative thoughts and feelings because in the past, they might have encountered worst experience that transformed the movement of their mind to embrace negative results rather than positive and that negative thought might always prevail. Negativity is what they see in their mind. They are doing this all the time to think and feel that way to avoid repetition of tendencies that may occur in some days or years of their lives. There might be some positive ones but so thin to believe by them as positive or unharmed. Counseling this kind of behavior requires patience for they never like to listen to explanation. They always attest themselves as right and never would they believe others for fears that something bad would still happen to them. It seems their mind is in total damage hard to repair by a medicine, but the language of the soul is to give a person negative in attitude a chance to be happy, for those having this attitude seldom find happiness as the resolution to their troubled state. Another is they need constant exercise that eliminates fears and let enter onto their minds happy thoughts. It is not easy to be this way for time comes they cannot anymore find the best picture of their life, so they may resolve by committing a suicide. Those negative thinkers always have suicidal thoughts of their mental images. It seems crucial for them to overthrow the alleged consequences that keep on taunting them. This hurts much their feeling so the only solution they find in their mind is to end the suffering to end the entries of bad thoughts that terrify them moment to moment as if no ending without knowing that it is only a matter of thinking that tends them to feel afraid.
Those flankers in the bar examination may have some negative thoughts before taking the exam. Most examiners always have negative effect to their performance and those who are negative minded always accept fate that not all the time human beings succeed in what they aspire for , there are times they failed so those positive minded examinees may retake the exam for the positive belief that the next time around, they will pass, and those negative minded, may feel depress and want to jump the highest bridge to avoid shame of failing the bar , engineering, or Certified Public Accountant examination . It happened to our neighbor. She graduated Magna Cum Laude of the course BS in Accountancy in the Ateneo to become a public accountant, (CPA) only to attempt to commit a suicide for shame because of all the board takers of their course with honors and not passed the board examination, whereas, she flanked. When her mom arrived home she was shocked to know her daughter’s room locked, so they forced open the room and saw her about to drink the suicidal chemical. Her family stopped her of doing it. She cried in vain. She was pacified after some minutes when her mom collapsed. She was counseled an advised to retake the exam. She was in great surprise when received a letter one week after from the PRC board center Manila that she passed the board examination, and told the machine that checked the test results had a leak and it was resolved by doing the mechanical checking only to know that she was among the Top 10. You see, if she succeeded in committing a suicide all her efforts will be put to futility and her parents may live in total loss of their brilliant and lovely daughter, now a Lawyer.
Let us never be negative to find peace and see the real and true essence of life on earth.
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Should you happen to have negative friends please advise them by force to stop that attitude for hey can never have total happiness in their lives all the time negative means fluctuating mind.It is truly hard to deal negative people, how like to kick the wind and box the air for disparity,lols.