Do not wait for happiness tomorrow, live today.

People forget to enjoy life’s simple pleasures and bog down into quagmire of worries and unwittingly begin to live in the illusion of a better future. Happiness is not memories, but real time ongoing positive action. We can remember thinking how beautiful is the blooming gardens in the spring, but if there is no time to stop and admire it, we will not experience the feeling of happiness.

It is often assumed that childhood is the happiest time of life. The reason is that the children focus on the present. To plan and dream is good, but it does not have to overshadow the actual moment. It is useful to develop plans seeking an effective and efficient performance. Only it is very important not to create an illusion that supposedly only in the future we can become happy. It is very important balance between the present and the future. Happy life is being able to enjoy the present and what has been achieved today.

Planning is useful and necessary in order to avoid chaos. It also provides a quality of life. After all, many of the works and enjoyable activity it is important to perform on regular basis, according to the plan. Neglect does give happiness never. Even the nature has its cycles of order. Planning should help maintain productivity.

Work, rest and live – everything should be done sincerely and with all one hundred percent. Happiest moments are very simple. People being able to focus on the present are performing much more. If you are not satisfied with the current status of the situation, it is necessary to change it. Most often you need to change the behavior or thinking. When everything what depends on the will of human is made, you just have to concentrate and wait patiently. Everything in life passes. If the man still looks forward to the circumstances change, waiting for the better times to come, it is becoming abnormal behavior. When the situation does not change a long time, everything indicates that man avoids taking responsibility.

What determines the life of tomorrow? Living in the future is caused by fears and dread to look into the eyes of truth. It is much easier to live in illusions and hope that someday will come happiness. However, after a certain period of time or a change in circumstances, happiness does not increase. After getting  desired position, winning the lottery, marrying a loved one, the birth of the baby or reaching some other goal, the man is visited by euphoria, short elevation, but after a while it will disappear and they feel the way up to the moment of happiness, or even worse. Only we ourselves can give happiness to us. This can be achieved after resolved internal problems and began to change.

What types of people are waiting for happiness? It is the individuals that have a lot of illusions. Typically, these people think that once everything will change, their lives will be handled by someone or something, mood will come, and everything will lie down in its own place just by itself. It is noted that it is more common people who are not self-sufficient. However, this property have a very immature persons and the children of very patronizing parents.

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