the path taken by peachpurple
We often read the success stories of famous musicians, idols, rich
merchants and world leaders having gone through their childhood days as
any normal child in the neighborhood into a talented person.
Were their successful path chosen by their parents or themselves?
Did they chose their path without parents guidance or support?
How do you choose the right path for your child to be a useful and
successful person when he grows up?
If you are a wise parent, you will not choose the path for your child.
Instead, you will do your best, help him by making some research on
different fields, find out the successful stories behind those famous people
who had taken the path most.
Do you know that Rowan Atkinson had studied Engineering before he
became a famous actor?
Choosing the path that you had long desired, wanted to be but failed to
achieve, it is not right to pass the responsibility to your child in order to
succeed on your behalf.
What you had planned in mind may backfire instead.
Indeed, many parents had made decision what path their child should
venture in when he grows up.
However, is your child enjoying the walk that you had decided for him?
Maybe not.
When your child grows up under your control, without having the choice to
decide which path he could choose, he may turned into an obsessive, dull,
unbalance characteristic and behavior.
He is certainly not stupid because every child is clever in his own trade of
talent.
Every child is unique and special in his own way.
However, when a child had mastered and inherited the skill of one field,
he may face difficulties to survive in today’s world of increasing demand.
Most employers prefer employees who have talents in different sectors,
a lively and socialize person with quick thinking solutions.
If you child had been pressured to learn a path that he disliked but his
parents LIKED BEST, he is most likely unable to survive in a world of
demanding leaders and becomes stagnant in his own cubicle world.
Introduce different fields to your child at young age.
Get him to touch and learn various field of talent slowly.
Do not sign him up 4-5 lessons in a week.
Allow your child to create his hidden talent gradually.
It takes time and passion for him to love the field(s) that he is interested in.
A great exposure of different subjects such as Arts – drawing ( an artist ),
Sports- badminton, football ( a sportsman ), playing music instrument
( a pianist, violinist ), building blocks ( an architect), clothes ( a designer )
and many more.
Never ignore your child.
He needs your guidance and training to reach for his preferred path.
All you need to do is provide him the environment for him to explore.
If he likes sports, take him to the sport centre for training.
Encourage your child to fulfill his own ambition NOT yours.
Parents frequently mistaken that their child’s ambition is the same as theirs.
Give him words of advice, help him by doing research on the subject that
he is interested in.
Teach him how to find the details, what, where , how to do it.
Give him the freedom to choose what he wanted to be.
Give him a space where he can live his own life, he needed to learn how to
be independent one day.
Do you choose the path for your child since young?
Do you allow your child to choose what field he is keen to explore?
Did your parents insisted that you should give up you dream?
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As a parent, the role is very crucial in molding a child. It takes a lot of sacrifices and patience. This role is to guide the child as they grow older. Basically, we cannot decide what they like in life. The guidance is the best way for them to choose the right pathway.
Choosing right path for your children is very difficult but I say as a professional astrologer chose your child right path according to the child's birth trend that will the child to the right path and destination.
aking career choices are only part of the career planning process. Starting with a career plan early on in life for the best career path, is important and parents play a vital role in the choices made. As parent you can help your child make subject choices, select a tertiary institution and a major based on what your child wants from life.
Being part of this process is privilege as you can help your child to become the best that he or she can be in the occupation and industry field most suitable for reaching his or her goals and dreams.
These points help the child in choosing the right path...
Help your child to make a list of the things that he/she enjoys doing in their spare time.
Assist the child in making a list of things that he/she dislikes doing.
Help the child to identify subjects that he/she is good in and enjoys.
Speak to your child about dreams that they may have.
Find three to four self assessment tests on the Internet for your child to do.
Contact the career centre of your child's school for a further assessment.
Do the same for aptitude testing.
Let your child make a list of things that other people have said he/she does well.
Speak to your child about what he/she values most for instance, high
income, security, friendships, family life, fame, adventure, routine, discipline, new things or familiar things, working with his or her hands, working with the mind, creating art work, designing, building, repairing, caring, animals, people, outdoors or indoors, negotiating, selling, motivating, speaking, physical activity, competition, details, following instructions, working with guidance, helping others, working alone etc. are all keywords to help establish what he or she values and wants from life and a career.