Categories: Pregnancy & Parenting

Being Pregnant is a Blessing

I have heard or being asked some negative comments about pregnancy, and these comments came from my female friends.

  • How can someone get pregnant and pregnant again as giving birth is so painful?
  • Why do you want to get pregnant for your husband again? Aren’t two children enough for him?
  • Why women have to go through all the pains, but men do not need to?
  • Being pregnant makes a woman look horrible and fat, and you will not be able to slim down after giving birth.
  • Being pregnant loses a lot of freedom.

 

It’s for myself, our children and our family

First of all, I always tell, I get pregnant not because of my husband, it’s because of my children and our family. I do not understand why some females think having baby is for the husband. I really love kids. Since I was young, I always know I want to be a mother. I love being a mother. It’s also me who want to have more children, at least three children for me. I always think the more, the merrier.

 

It’s a gift for woman

Yes, I agree that it can be very sick during pregnancy, and it’s really painful going through the labor. I never blamed or complained to be a woman who has to go through these, in fact, I am really grateful for being a woman. Being pregnant is such a blessing, the experience is so wonderful and great. Feeling the baby inside my body, growing up day by day is so amazing! It is such a wonderful feeling that sometimes I even sympathize my husband as he can’t experience it. He can only see and touch my belly, but he can’t really feel how it is like when there is a baby inside. Going through the labor is extremely painful, but it’s again a wonderful and special experience too. I am really blessed to be able to have such great experience. That’s why I never complain, as it’s really a gift to me for being a woman.

 

Shine from within

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I always think pregnant ladies look great and beautiful! I think the beauty actually shines from the inner self. The love and care from a mother just makes the pregnant lady looks shining, if she wants to. Moreover, I believe one can still slim down after giving birth, if she breastfeeds or does exercises. I went back to my normal weight after giving birth in a short period, as I breastfed my baby and I brought my children to the park every morning. Actually I do not really mind how I look or whether I am fat or not, I just want my children and myself be healthy, that’s more important to me.

 

Freedom is always there

I will still be able to enjoy my freedom when my children grow up, I am not giving up my freedom. At the moment, I think being with the children is so much enjoyable and this is really what I want in my life. Even now when I am with my children, I still enjoy my freedom actually. It really depends what we want in our life.

 

I respect different people have different thoughts on pregnancies and motherhood. To me, being pregnant is really a blessing.

What do you think about pregnancy?

 

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  • Lee Ka

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    • I am a mother of 5 kids and i dont regret about it..Perhaps i am so blessed with this kids..At first i am afraid to get pregnant because i dont know how will i take care of them but after the morning sickness headache etc ..But when the baby come out and upon seeing the baby everything disappeared..the pain etc...I sacrifice everyting for them

    • It is truly a blessing to be pregnant. Though it comes with a lot of advices from everyone around you, one needs to be very careful not to listen to everyones advice last that get confused and lost. I have never been pregnant before but I know that it is a beautiful thing, scary and painful at the same time, but you have to be there to realize and see what it all means. So for me i will wait for when my time will come then I can talk about much more.

    • Mostly pregnancy is the result of marriage and marriage is compromise between the two fools who lead life in the hell of responsibility. I think, pregnancy is blessing because every two forces create the third force.

      Now I tell you why women care for their children at homes and out of homes. They children not due to they their children, no they see their future images in the children a that is why they love children keeping in mind her own personality. Child is nothing but the image of a woman to worship until he or she grows up.

      On growing up when the children do what they do and do not follow the parents advise their image crushes and the women disappointed. Yes, to remove her disappointment she thinks of being second time pregnant keeping in mind the past mistakes in the children's up. bringing

      In the same way the woman create children and at last die because dream come true sometimes not. Woman worship her own image in the veil of child cute or not cute.

      On growing up, she makes his or her marriage to hide her mistake the the children repeat the same mistake on being parents thus the birth system is running on earth.

      I say women worship images not her children It is a solid fact. Ask any woman, what she says about it.

    • Being pregnant is the best thing that will happen for a woman.It completes their life as a mother in the family.For some reason, it brings joy to the family.The family united because of their offspring.

      For elders, they considered being pregnant as lucky.It attracts fortune.They also think twins are being lucky to have them.Parenting is the hardest responsibility.The parents need to take the responsibility seriously.Some of them are so irresponsible and cannot even think the welfare of a child.

    • After you have longed to be pregnant for years and then you suddenly get it especially after losing all hopes it is no more than a blessing and a miracle.

      For me pregnancy brought with immense happiness for my entire family. It was like a long awaited dream come true.

      I confess that after entering motherhood there were times when I regretted when i lost my freedom and was over burdened with responsibilities. But the phase soon subsided ans now I enjoy motherhood to the fullest.

    • I can still recall Susmita Sen's answer that won her the Ms. Universe crown held in the Philippines to the question "what is the essence of a woman".

      To this, she answered the essence of a woman is somewhat " The essence of a woman is being a mother. . . ."

      And all would agree that it is indeed. Even if you didn't give birth biologically by yourself, the mere fact that you have brought up even an adopted child is already your essence as a woman.

      And I feel proud that I was also able to give birth to a now young doctor. My essence as a woman is already fulfilled, because not only was I able to give life to a child, but I was able to raise her to be a smart , simple and God fearing woman too.

    • really pregnancy is good thing but depend on how you see it, some are happy with no kids and that makes them feel as if they are blessed, i guess depend on how you see it and how program hhour life , so some dont like to have kids and they live happy and gound blessing in othe rhings, i guess its how you programmed your life to be, so if you like to have kids then you find pregnancy gift, if you want to be business woman and so you will find it really obstruction to yoru job. i guess you need first to get powerful life with all arranged and good to get a kid

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