Always be a charismatic woman.

Communicating with my friends girls I often hear how they say, “I’m possessive,” “I’m very nervous; “I’m very responsible and perfectionist” or “I still fail to do anything, I am fucker” and so on. When I hear such statements I always try to explain them that these statements are exactly what the surrounding is talking about them. All that we have heard in the home environment, educational institutions, dealing with friends, but I want to say – do not believe such statements. This is not true. When we get a label – “You are domineering, like your mom”, or “You are lazy as you father” we start believe in it. Your subconscious records it and you continue to live according identification with what you have heard about yourself. Often we live with the characteristic that created for us other people that even we choose to behave and to live so and thus forever bury most beautiful characteristics existing in us, that we received at birth.

How does this happen? Women often like to criticize themselves, to blame, and after all the words have the energetic sense and what is often repeated finally become the true. You believe that, and other people simply have no other choice. Criticism also came from the surrounding. It is an opinion about you of people who have once surrounded you and maybe still surround. You start to repeat that opinion and program yourself.

Therefore, first of all you should learn to stop condemn and blame yourself: “I’m fat, I’m ugly, I eat too much.” If you love yourself, you will never hurt yourself, and will take care of yourself, will protect and watch over yourself, will say compliments to yourself just because he is in this world.

And if you already have the desire to blame yourself, it is important to constantly analyze yourself and your actions. If you are not satisfied with yourself, think about what you can do, so you would not been such. But positive attitude always helps the most.

Let us accept ourselves and every day as perfection. After all, if even something failed, we something have learned and got to know something new, and therefore, perhaps, we became a little milder or better.

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