We Should Be Allowed To Make Our Own Decisions

Some people will try to make decisions for others. We all have choice and should not feel bad about our decisions. Of course not all decisions are the best but we must live and learn. Some may have their own agenda and that’s why they may try to hinder decision making. It’s unfortunate when others invade in our lives when they should be focusing on their own lives. That’s why some choose to make decisions in silent.

We have opportunities to advance and some may become fearful when others try to move ahead. At the end of the day it’s our decision. “Decision Makers” should make decisions whether others agree or not. Adults continue to make decisions and some are allowed to do so with ease. While others continue to come up against resistance.

When we find that others are unwilling to allow us to make decisions then we must find a creative way to decide. Sometimes we may have to set up dummy plans so that others are unaware of what we’re up to. Some are uncomfortable with our decisions because they may “need” to use us for something. Life is to be lived.

We should not allow others to live our life for us. If we do then we won’t be mobile. We will be unable to think for ourselves. That’s exactly what others want. If we’re unable to think for ourselves then they’ll have total control. Allowing others to control our lives isn’t good.

If we’re not allowed to make our own decisions then we may become resentful. Too many people are so in tuned with what others are doing in their lives. We must focus on what’s happening in our own lives. Some lose out because their too busy minding other people’s business. Sometimes we have to let others know that they’re being too invasive. Some may not be pleased but at least we’re standing up for ourselves.

It’s no fun being controlled and some have a controlling spirit. They simply want things their way. So they will try to manipulate our way of thinking so that are decisions are based off what they want for us.

Some live in sadness because they’re constantly allowing others to make their own decisions. Not a good idea. We can’t live trapped lives in order to please others. While we’re allowing others to control our lives their living their own lives.

Don’t be controlled. Even God gives us choice. We only live once and there’s no turning back. So why shouldn’t we live our lives happily? Some should be focused on their decisions that mustt be made. It’s so irritating when others want to remain focused on our lives.