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Women are not alone in this

I can recall a situation where a woman herself said that woman is not a victim every time and atrocities against her were not as much as painted by feminist. And when writing this I’m sure some of you will feel bad, maybe there would be cries of misogyny and sexism, but that is truth. As far meggings go I tried searching it for Indian men and see what I found in a newspaper

You have always heard that all victims are female but I know a woman who married a man who was in an abusive marriage but in mediation, they always favored her because she was a woman. I don’t understand that all the TV series I happen to watch have women plotting or ingrained prejudice against women. No, I don’t think the trend is going to change in near future.

Would you believe that contrary to general belief, one in three victims is a male. Let’s end domestic violence for all, regardless of gender. I suppose man feel ashamed accepting they are abused to sing loudly “Never Tear Us Apart” literally on Literacy base guys. We should work to end violence against women, men and children.

Let me quote Osho here, “Your Honesty, Your love, your compassion should come from your inner being, not from teachings and scriptures”. Women please note you are not alone in this but let me accept the naked truth that we feel ashamed accepting that we too feel the same.

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I have a simple question here why does sexism denotes to prejudice, stereotyping, or discrimination, typically or should I say especially against women. Isn’t it on the basis of sex? Why the heck sexism in any language is considered an offense against women only?

Would you mind if I use few keywords explaining the matter clearly like – chauvinism, discrimination, prejudice, Down, Underprivileged etc

If any of you believe me and wish to raise your voice you’re free to join me here- http://goo.gl/Q54IpN

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  • suny

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    • I think any person who experiences domestic violence feels vulnerable, ashamed, afraid of what might come next. Yes, it is true that men are even less likely to report abuse than women in a similar situation. And even more importantly, there are far fewer services set up to help men who need support and shelter.

      One thing we can do in our efforts to raise awareness is to avoid "us and them" style comparisons, mentions of feminism or misogyny, and any appearance of a sour grapes approach to the topic. The goal should be to increase and awareness for men, rather than to further pit men against women.

    • Yes it is not easy for anyone be it a man or a woman to go out in public and report that they have been abused. Usually you will find that the man or woman will be quiet about and just suffer silently, but that should be th3 case. Because there are some people who are just outright abusers and they should be caught and jailed. If you do not report them then they continue abusing their victims and may also abuse others. In my country cases of men started coming out in the open about them being abused, and some people laughed while others were actually moved and applauded the move. As the cases started growing people took more interest and it turned out that man just suffer the same ordeals that women also go through. So a guy came up with a can I call it a forum or platform where men could find a place of refuge and report their cases. To tell you the truth it was so hard for the man to come forward very few did so but the others thought it was best to just keep to themselves than bringing shame to themselves. But it shouldn't come out as a shameful act, man shouldn't feel embarassed coz they are the once suffering.

    • You say both right, somewhere men are abused and somewhere women are abused, we must think where is the root of evil in our society? So that we could uproot the real evil root from our society. I think poverty is basic problem in our society and I see most of the domestic problem start with poverty.

      Lenin used to say, You, abolish poverty, social evils will end traumatically from every societies on earth" Political and social instability in any country is produced by the rich politicians knowingly.

      As you see after getting degree men and women do not get hob what they will do in future from they will feed their children and selves, just one way remains is crime or looting someone and and woman has one to sell out her chastity in open market.

      I say our social and political structures both are corrupt in every country.

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