Ever here that from a couple walking by, or sitting on the train or bus. Or is it you ? Relationships can come in many ways , when your a kid growing up you have relationships with the kids in your school, your class, your neighborhood. Or you have a relationship with another business. Family members can have relationships to favorite cousins. My best uncle, and s o on. But let us not kid ourselves when some one says the word relationship your mind goes to a man and a woman. Wow i can remember my first crush, was about 7 ,and i was a boy scout and a junior solider at my church the Salvation Army on 55th Market. Its was a older woman its been so long i forgot her name no I’m kidding her name was hope she was like a volunteer or a den mother i forget but i remember her face she was pretty thats all i can remember oh yeah her voice. At that age i really that i could have this grown woman, that was crazy and far from reality. But my point is this man and woman thing that been going on since the beginning of time. Body meets girl boy falls in love with girl. I mean i guess its in us to like each other i mean its not a taught behavior, it just happen, and its crazy because how did i know she was pretty or that woman is beautiful. Its just in us mean the way little girls have crushes on the popular boy in the class and never even look at the boy who answers all the questions right from the teacher. Young love back in the day you would write a note in school on a ripped piece of paper that said do you want to be my boyfriend or girl friend check yes or no. Crazy how innocent it use to be . you would talk on the phone and steal a kiss in the hallway, Then as we get older that sweet little guy now has something else on his mind. Sex i don’t know were that emotion or or acting come from but you just feel it and now when you around that person you want to touch them kiss them and touch places that are privet. And then you have sex. I had sex when i was 14 the woman was 19 years old a woman i thought i was the man, you know my father and brother didn’t tell me not to have sex, or like yo wait until u get older , no they use to brag to there friends how much his son his brother got all the woman. So i grew up not respecting woman ,and its a lot of little boys out here that learn from man that see woman as things not people. It took me until i turned 31 to be able to lay down with a woman ,and be able to just talk to her with out trying to have sex with her. I wish i could go back in time and not had sex as a teenager. Its not good for teenagers to have sex its for grown people its dealing with a lot of emotions , and see man and woman are different . Woman have a chemical in them that attach them to the one they have sex with , man like her until they come. I mean we will tell this woman any and everything to get into there pants, not Knowing we are creating a bond we don’t want. And then it turns to a ego thing how many woman we can sleep with, but woman aren’t like that , i think we as man have conditioned woman to act like man now days. See when a man meets a woman he want”s to be the only person who she ever been with, but sometimes thats not true. but everybody aren’t the same there are some men that don’t think like that or treat woman in that way. You have some woman that have turned the roles around and treat men as things to get there rocks off. And this is a problem in our society today. Its a joke , you use to have to get to know a woman to sleep with her the chase was the game it was fun, now days you smoke a blunt with a woman u just met and you to are sexing it all night .Im not going to say that all relations go wrong when sex is done to soon, but it sure looks that way . What about 2% make it with having a one night stand. The clothes the woman wear to day say sex and at bars or any social place thats what its all about. Is that what life comes to a society of sex crazed people. There are more then 70% of single parents out there and its stems from just having sex with no feelings at all for one another. How do the kids receive love when mom don’t know love from a one night stand , there are woman out here that feel u only love them if you two have sex some man feel like that also. So who do we blame for the failure of todays relationship him or her.
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From the story i read,"you know my father and brother didn’t tell me not to have sex, or like yo wait until u get older" I think foundation is very key, how our parent raise us, things we ought to do and not to do