Do you help your partner?

I am not sure how many of our members on this site are married or in partnership and if they are how many of them feel happy or bad with the habits of their partners! My topic of this particular post is related to the habits about how they help keep the house tidy or help their partners in household chores.  I wish to know about the regular or daily light work of a household or in form of routine task or simple jobs.

For instance, my wife cooks and I help her finish the food. My wife does the laundry and I help her get the next lot. Likewise I earn and my wife helps spending money before the next pay comes in. You see we help each other in a perfect way.

Jokes apart, we all have good and bad habits and some of them need our immediate attention so that our partner feels lesser annoyed but let me make it clear at this point that change of habits is not as easy as we think it is. If anyone feels that change in habits according the liking of partners is like an electrical switch that can be turned off or on you are mistaken.

Then what is the solution? Yes there is a solution but for changing the bad habits (?) of your partner you will have to make changes in your own habits first. You can always make a change in any particular habit with something that is of prime interest of your partner. Every time present them with that particular gift they try to improve on that so-called bad habit.

By the way, in most cases what we consider a bad habit is a routine for your partner so the best way to deal with that is to avoid it or if it is something you can do it for them you will find your partner noticing it and changing for good.

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