The Power Of Silence In A Troubled Moment

Have you tried to tell someone that you need to be alone? Have you experience some troubles in your life? If so how did you manage those troubles? It is wrong to harm the self during troubled moment for the more you cannot find answers how to solve them. Facing own problem is not easy. Sometimes you want a friend to listen to you. Your brain wants to crack finding some eases to restore back peace of mind. What makes you feel better when alone? It is so simple; it does not need mathematical calculations but rather suitable words to gain you peace. Close your eyes and know what your problem is all about. Think of the root cause of that problem. Ask yourself if that is truly a problem. Then your mind will release data as to what you are seeking for. Sometimes in our silence we can recall some experiences that may connect to our present and such may remedy the root cause of our problem. If we are alone, we can concentrate better. Our mind is so relax and so with the beating of our heart. After you gather all the resources from your mind, mark my word, your lips will paint a smile. Out of that alone mood in silence you will also realize some mistakes you have had in the past. You feel better after al those struggling days.

One concrete example of a problem that requires you to be alone is problem of love. This may be a problem if there are many complications, and the fact is, you are so in love to a married man late of your knowledge and you give to the man everything. What should you do if this happens to you late knowledge of the man’s marital status? That kind of problem may involve the entire families of both sides. It will be a very big shame and you feel your own slaps on your face. You cannot avoid covering your face with your hands thinking that for some minutes you can crush out the shame and regret. To fall in love is not a sin, but it may become a crime if the man or woman is married and their marriage is still intact and only be hampered by cruelties on the side of both wife or husband if found their better half cheats their marriage and you are this one creating troubles, yet beyond your knowledge. The fault would still fall on you for you did not make a background check to the guy. It should have been better to investigate. There are many ways to do this through media, friends, and the location of the person. Who knows in the office the manager or the human resource officer can hand you date about the real status of the person, unless you tolerate yourself and enjoy every moment with your wrongful tolerance.

That silence is the concrete substance to eliminate some disasters that await should you not be brave enough to cement that love in the ground and let time and different climates rot the mystics that romantically link between you and that married person. It is not late by the way to sound off the repentance and the new face you should shell out so that you can embrace fully new life that surely withstands in years without guilt to carry on and conscience to torture you day after day as long as you believe in yourself and keep a promise before God never to commit the same mistake again. It is so important to be wise and not to experiment something that may surely destroy your figure and fame. There are also famous celebrities in Philippines whose marriage were broken because a celebrity husband was caught giving gifts to his covet. The worst was those gifts were gifts given to him by his very own wife, also a celebrity .What a total destruction of marriage and their children all girls were very much affected emotionally, be ridiculed and bullied by their children friends. The wife had felt life killing her with a very sharp dagger due to pain, shame, insult and injury .They eventually broke their marriage for the wife cannot accept her infidel husband. The celebrity is so beautiful, model, actress, yet the husband was still not contented. It should be better for that husband to seek help in silence so he can weight things justly and escape remorse at the end of his life’s trials and cheats.

There is so much answer to a problem in silence than in a noisy place with family members that may keep on barking like dogs. The more you feel miserable and troubled for you cannot decide which among the suggestions suit much to your need. You know well your problem, so those suggestions may surely help if presented one at a time not in chorus. Sometimes, it sounds irritating to listen to grudges and blames. You sought help to guide you and correct mistakes intentionally or not. It is hard to escape temptations for humans are so vulnerable and recipients mostly of a killer feeling of liking and attraction, yet such may fatal as days go by. It is so hard to correct some mistakes to whatever degree and kind they would be. There are many factors why hard to correct, but you should do it for the sake of life itself. Life will become miserable if tolerate your wrongs. No matter how cruel life is for being easily tempted, there are still many ways to accept your weakness , and make life anew ; in so doing, peace of mind may restore and destructions eventually be repaired, so with your broken heart healed. In silence is where you also feel the presence of God. The more you will be encouraged to repair your life when God enters your troubled life. You will find ease and put everything to God for God hears us and heals our broken hearts. Every time, I am in trouble, I seek silence in my room alone and in there I can talk to God and confess to Him everything to gain peace of mind, good health and prosperity; likewise, to the entire members of our family.

In silence is where we see our sin and guilt and feel remorseful to those and repent not to do the same mistakes again. Do try silence as your real partner of peace and remorse.

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