Are you in a foul mood?

Do you know guys what is the most dangerous things if you ever wish to destroy your friendship with your best friend? There is no need to laugh as I am in worst of my moods today because I almost did the same a few hours before. Actually my internet connection was not working so I decided to go to a friend’s place a couple of blocks away. You know it was kind of visit we keep exchanging when nothing else to do.

Everything was going on in a perfect way as we two were having fun with a glass of something in our hands.  But what I did wrong was I gave him an advice. That was none of my fault though because he was telling me something in atone that confused me and I thought he was in need of my help. But as soon as I suggested him the solution he probably became annoyed as his facial expression changed and looks suggested.

Later he said something that I would not write here but I left his pace and came back home. I was feeling terribly upset. I am still not normal while writing this post. I can remember what I read somewhere and reached to a simple solution now that friendship is okay but suggestions are not at all desired in all cases. Not until someone asks for your suggestion at least.

I am in a foul mood though but I know most of us never hesitate in offering advises during our discussion with friends and relatives without even considering whether they need it or not. Maybe there is a simple reason behind our intention to suggest them is to solve their problem by adding our bit or making him understand that we are standing with him.

But in most cases we should know his actual problem or his willingness. However, I have reached to this hard fact that giving advice to your friends is a complicated issue and I understood this fact the harder way.

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