What makes you sad? What makes you cry? What makes you sick that you almost want to die? The answer of all these questions is you feel the despair despite you do not know yet whether what causes you feel that way. Those are the usual actuation of a person if there is news heard or sent. There are times that negative thinking appears in mind if the person you are waiting oh does not arrive. You think of many negative happenings along the way to that person, he be your husband, wife, brother , sister or child. Fear strikes to your emotion and you cannot avoid this especially if there is no contact, no text which is the trend or call which could ease your restless moment. You only feel relieved when the person arrived safe in your home. Home is where everyone regardless of where you are destined is the home base to feel the comfort. Well, there is no place like home.
There are times that you are in despair of some unknown reasons, he he he, I am so sure that everyone has experienced this kind of feeling. You feel this way if think your boyfriend or girlfriend cannot text you. You feel this way if you are a student and you are always coming to class late and do not pass every quiz and test made. You will be in a restless mood if you almost run out of your weekly allowance because you spend much not part of your budget. It is not easy to have this reality if you are a student, boarding in the city and far from home. It very much necessary to control the useless buying not needed. It will be better for you to live beyond your means, or if possible to live without means, LOL. My friend, aa Chemist told me that if I want to become a millionaire, I have to live without means. Of course, I opposed, for no one lives without means, only the out of mind having this kind of living without means. To be hungry and supply the hunger is one kind of an inevitable means you can never neglect.
Do not despair yet of what has not been learned for it makes you sick. You will lost focus and you cannot concentrate on the actual scenario at home or at any place. If you lack focus, and if you are in the street, you will face risk. This time, there are so many reckless drivers, and if you lack focus; you might be a victim of their recklessness. Also, an assumption that is not yet proven true must not be despaired of because your emotion suffers. While it is true that humans are vulnerable, yet somehow , the will that dominate in every living souls is the sole assurance to escape from any untoward events for the mind is the source of every command the emotion has. Man is gifted with an intellect, so avoid a sudden conclusion that may cause havoc to your health or to your life itself.
The husband of my friend who works abroad collapsed and died because of the negative news sent to him. His heart was so much in despair thinking that his wife will be dead when she was hit and run by a certain driver in United States. The wife jogged one morning and it was so foggy; she was not seen by the driver. The wife survived because she wore a helmet while jogging to avoid the cold air, but the husband was not recovered. It is very important to control your emotion for it might get a sudden shock despite information wrong or misleading.
You only have one life to live, so treasure life and take care of it by not feeling in despair to a nonsense cause.
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It is but natural to worry when we are waiting for some news about someone sick or when we are waiting for our love one to arrive. But we have to be positive and instead call the person to know what was delaying her/him.
It's sad that the man died because he was thinking that his wife is in a not good situation. Had he instead texted or called his wife, he could have been alive.
Worry makes us feel sick and lonely. Just give it to God, because He knows what to do. And when you pray, believe.
@Dina, Hi Dina, yes you are right every time we hear somewhat negative info we immediately react. It is simply because we are so afraid of some unknowns.About that husband, he was so shocked actually. At 26 he had heart attack. His wife too died after 8 months after knowing her husband died due to the bad news. The wife is from malaybalay City, Mindanao and after knowing about the fate of her husband she decided to go home despise her doctor disallowed, She assured the doctor so she was granted traveling with a special cause. When she arrived Cagayan de oro city, our city, she was transported via ambulance, but along the road ,her heart stopped beating, dead before reaching her home in Malaybalay city.
I agree worrying is noraml and healthy feeling, its needed also, it make us think it make us react it also make us prepare for the coming, it make us dream while waiting, it make us think for the future, it make us see our last behavior and see if was good or bad, it make us real human and I agree with you that when its over then its not good as it will dot the oppostite wot hat it do when at healthy degree. we need to worry but to some level and we need not to let that worry be more than what we need to make great plans for the future. people who do not worry agout their life and family and their work wil not do good in life. they are going to live life as granted and that is big mistake, life never granted nor the gifts in it. Thanks again for the post and the stories and the comment, as all the lines give us more education and sample of what life is and how to see it also