How do you feel if having a negative minded friend? I think you lost the appetite to continue getting closer to a friend that is always negative. Whatever you share nice plans in your life, he or she keeps on opposing. The feeling is so disgusting that you want to utter striking words that you hate him/her being that way. If you have a friend like this, better junk that person. Sooner or later, you might be contaminated with your friend’s attitude. In your min shows many beautiful pictures that associate with your feeling only to be distracted by negative remarks of your friend, so distasteful
At home, I always feel bad about my elder sister’s attitude. There is no topic of mine that she replied with some positive response, all negative. She is all the time opposition and sometimes I feel hurt for I need someone in the family to support my plans and projects for a better life. If I say that I like to open a fast food center at least, a franchisee of a famous Baker in our city, she immediately overthrows in negative way my plan. She directly says, do not open a business like that because you do not have idea about it, plus there are so many fast food chains here in our place. Goodness sake, what she is talking was so deafening to me. She does not know that I make a feasibility study on that .She should have encouraged and supported my plan and decision rather than to harass me with those negative words, Plus, I never ask money from her to be added to my capital, No.
I also have a co-teacher who is always in the negative mood. She keeps on saying “No.” One time, I pity her because she does not know how to manipulate a computer. She seems afraid to hold the mouse of the computer hehehe. And because I have two extra computers at home, I want to give one to her, but her answer was “No.” My goodness, where on earth could you find a teacher like her so negative and insensitive? The computer that I want to give her is with complete set, everything a computer needs. She is still single at her age 62 because she is afraid to marry from a reason not clear to us.
From that time on, I never talk to her. I just smile at her for I do not like to be contaminated with her negative attitude. She does not even have a refrigerator, for her it is just a waste of money, very abnormal reasoning. There are so many people sick of this kind, negative. They can never have better friends for what their friends like would be like them, positive.
So, if you happen to read this post and having all the time negative, my advice to you is, please change your mind set. There will be time you think or respond in negative, but your reason might be a high profile reason, so people around could carry and accept it, if not, many will surely have a hot blood on you.
I do not like negative people. They never like and want change in themselves. They will remain obsolete and remote. They are, in short, cowards to face the truth, and to accept new challenges of their lives. But you can help them through exploitation. Tell those negatives to try to do and discover those they are afraid of like traveling riding on airplanes, LOL, and going to other places local and national riding through bus or plane. This way helps them realize that what they are thinking about is wrong.Negative thinkers are always lonesome mood.
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negative minded people are just making your mind polluted :D I mean instead of encouraging you she will just discourage you and drag you down. If your not that super positive person she will drag you instead of having the one who will help her . It's good to stay away.
@asher ken , H? Thanks for sharing your nice thoughts on my post very much appreciated. Yes, you are right this kind of persons are so disgusting and annoying.They wanted us positive type to be with their stand haha, they are wrong. They can never put positive thinkers like us down. We have the mind to analyze their invitations. Only few is attracted to their agenda.I never entertain explanations of the negative people, wasting time.We cannot convince them. I think that s part of their brain,LOL
Let us never allow negative people to kill our dreams.Thanks and take care.
I don't dwell with people who are ao negative in all aspects of their lives. I don't want them to spoil my optimistic chanel. Negative people are jinx and a hindrance of having productive aspirations to betterment of life. Because of the negativity, they can able to be influential. It was like the negative thinking attracts to positive thinkers. That's the reason why we need to encourage others to think positive. If there is an evident of refusal, never tried to persuade them. Let them have time to know their flaws. In time, theu would be able to realize what's really best for them. Personally speaking, I can't stand being with these people. I feel so irritated and if I can only drag them out of my sights, I will do it. There is no need to explain myself if I acted differently with these people.
@Shavkat, hehehehe, you are so right, if we can only box them and drag them away from our sites. The best thing that we can do is to avoid them.Sometimes it is blood boiling listening to their twisted arguments. there are are so many of them in the planet where we work, live and meet. They sound so ridiculous. We tend to ask ourselves why they are so indifferent. They seem not happy persons. They seem hating people and the world. They are haters and loners too.
Why are they loners? It is because they lack sympathizers and followers.They also think they are losers of life. And that is one sign of being negative all the time, negative. There are times we tend to be negative but we easily resolved the conflict.They are like ants that want to drag the colony to create what they like to create, the same as the negative, but they never succeed.
I can't be involved with others that only think negative.
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To be honest, my husband is a bit of a negative person. He is a worrier too.
When our child was already a teenager, he doesn't want her to join outings because something bad might happen to her. And I would rebut him and tell him, if we will always think like that, we will never be happy in life because we will always be afraid of bad things that might happen to us. I told him, we can ward those negative thoughts by praying that it won't happen because prayer is the most powerful weapon.
And whenever he worries, I tell him not to but instead just pray. Good thing, he would just keep silent.
He is my husband but I have to contradict him when he starts getting negative.
@Dina, heheheeh you are just a loving wife concern of both your loves daughter and hubby.ASt least your husband is listening to you. You cannot also blame him because of the fact that we have this time in our society that is full of drug addicts.He is afraid of some unknowns that may occur. yes, prayer is a very strong weapon to survive and to escape from any harm or danger.
That is true. It is through prayer that I offer any problem that I may have. I don't ask for God to solve it for me, but to help me solve it. I have to do something and let God do the rest.
I actually hate to be around negative people, because I am a person who always believe that when we think positively , good things will come naturally.
@Dina, That is true, let us allow our free mind given by God to settle some conflicts of our lives.I appreciate those strong people who are not bothered with petty problems in life. There are also those who are too emotional despite cause or effect not yet known and for me it is normal for we do not like our loves of life be put to harm or danger.That is also what they would feel to us if not seen at home right away.This is so because of LOVE.