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Everyone has problems.
Even school-age children and teenagers faced problems at school due to stress
over school work, unable to catch-up
with teacher’s teaching guide, school bullies
and anti-social behaviors.
If you have school-aged children or teenager
studying at college, how do you know that
he/she is having problem at school?
I have a 9 year old boy and a College
Teenager.
As a mother of 2 kids, I had to learn how to
communicate with them in order to know what
is going on at school daily.
As parents, we simply couldn’t ignore the
burden they are carrying inside their hearts.
Teachers in charge may be able to help out if
they had noticed the sudden changes in
behavior and attitude of our school aged
children.
Majority school age children do encounter
problems at school regardless of age, dealing
with teachers, classmates or understanding
difficult subjects which are hard for them to
cope with.
Kids have problems as adults do.
The only difference is children do not know
how to express themselves about their
problems they are facing or whom to talk to.
When a child faces school-related problems,
he keeps to himself instead of discussing with
his parents, siblings, friends or school teacher.
Once, my son told me:
Mommy, I don’t like school. I hate my teacher.
I hate my friends but I love you mommy.
When I started to question him whether he had
encountered any problems in school, he
refused to reveal anything.
If your child is a hyperactive kid, he should
easily tell you his problems, his difficulties that
he is facing in school.
My boy is always anxious to tell me what had
happened in school daily, what his teachers
had taught him and who pushes who, kids
usually love to play while walking to classes.
However, if your child has a quiet nature, you
may have to be a little sensitive towards his
needs, what phase he is going through in
school and look into his homework.
Do not ignore his feelings, his facial expression
and his daily mood after school.
Be your on Private Eye Investigator but don’t
let your child know your intentions.
If you are having a hard time to get your child
to explain to you what is bothering him, you
have to investigate the problem, find out the
root that causes it on your own or with your
hubby’s help.
You can inquire through your child’s classmates
, close friends, cousins, siblings and his teacher
in charge.
Alternatively, you can strike up this
conversation again when he is in a good
mood.
He may open up to you by then, maybe when
it is over.
If your child had opened up his problems in
school to you and claimed that he can handle
it on his own, let him be.
Give him some confidence, allow him to be
independent to settle his own problems without
relying on mommy’s help.
However, do stay up to date how is the
situation to make sure that he is alright.
Always stay alert with his sudden mood
changes.
Ask him if he needs any help.
Let him know that you are always there for him
if he needed any advice or discussion on how
to settle his problems in school.
Give him lots of words on encouragement and
confidence.
What would you do when your child is having
problems in school?
What do you do when your child have
arguments or fights with his classmates?
What do you do when he teachers scolded or
punishes him?
Do share with me your ideas.
I would love to learn from yours.
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I wouldn't really know what to say about it as a parent because am not one. But let me speak as a child who has been there before and who has been there for my teenage nephews and nieces. Many are the times parents have a problem with their teenage kids, because maybe they're too harsh or are you busy to listen to them. I remember when my nephew was in high school he had a hard time talking to his dad because he believed that what he said is what stays, but little did he know that he was pushing away his son without his knowledge. His mum died when he was still a young boy so he became so close to me and I became his "mum".he would open up to me and I would advice him accordingly. So I felt that th3 dad did not give him time or an ear to hear what he had to say it share and that can be very dangerous in a growing child. So I agree with you on the 4 points and if parents could just spare some quality time with their kids they wouldn't be having problems like saying that don't wanna go to school.
Children who are at work usually have a high-stress level.They are like adults who experience bad or good things at school.The best course of action is to listen.It is also nice that the children need to have an ample time to rest after school.Doing homework is the worst enemy of the children.Sometimes children need to be guided in doing his or her homework.There are times that children feel frustrated.So we need to help them.
Children face three types of problems at homes and schools: psychological, psychical and mental. Mental problem is genetically, physical problem is by birth and psychological problem starts with home atmosphere. First child is brought up st homes and after this children go children go schools to improve home education.
If children face any type of problem at school its root lies at home and not at school. Parents are supposed to to bring up heir children in a peaceful atmosphere so that they could face any problem at school because its hinders the children's educational progress.
Ups and downs at school are part of life for many young people. A good relationship with your child’s school and teachers can help you head off problems. If school problems do come up, it’s important that you quickly recognise and address them.
School problems can show up as poor academic performance, lack of motivation for school, loss of interest in school work, or poor relationships with peers or teachers.
School difficulties range from minor to severe, might be very short-lived or last for longer. Even short-term school problems can have a negative impact on how young people feel about school – and themselves.