My hubby and I sometimes fight in front of our kids especially when
Blaming each other for the faults in children upbringing is one of the
Initially, nobody is willing to take the blame until one of us had to give
( hurt from a fall, children fights, accidents,
self inflicted cuts)
listen to parents instructions or advices
teachers couldn’t discipline themselves
calling on friends and own siblings
It is healthy to work out disagreement immediately in amicable atmosphere.
#1 – Treat each other ideas, suggestions and advices with respect.
# 2 – Do not throw a wet blanket over the discussions.
suggestions
# 3 – Gripe well in each other opinion without interruptions.
# 4 – Do not resort to name calling in front of your children.
They will imitate the way you call your spouse.
Calling your wife stupid mom, your children will also call
their mom stupid mom because they thought it is right to do
so.
Children are good at imitation without knowing the truth
behind your name calling.
No matter how angry you are, refrain from name calling
infront of your children.
# 5 – Do not start destructive criticisms against your spouse.
Keep your criticism at bay.
Criticism will lower the esteem of your spouse confidence,
felt useless and refusal to rectify mistakes.
Your spouse will become stubborn, insist that he is right
from the start.
#6 – Reduce your nagging habit.
Once parents lived together under one roof for many years,
it is inevitable for parents to start nagging at each other ove trivial problems.
# 7 – Do not argue infront of your children.
It will subject your children to feel insecure, worried about their future and induce negative thoughts.
# 8 -Do not use violence against your spouse.
Although domestic violence occurs in families with
communication breakdowns, it is advisable not to cause
physical hurts, bang fist, throwing things.
Most violent fights with caused injuries are unintentional but
sudden outburst of anger couldn’t be controlled easily.
Domestic violence had to be stopped by family members aids
or police intervention for serious cases
# 9 – Practice compromise method with negotiations.
You cannot expect to win throughout all disagreement.
Try to give and take.
Sometimes you give in, sometimes you take for your rights.
Do not stick to the mud with your stubborn attitude.
No spouse could give in every disagreement.
When you give in, your spouse might feel guilty about it and
become more flexible instead.
#10- Reduce spouse humiliating infront of your children.
You are doing a favor for both your spouse and your children.
Spouting humiliations develop destructive image and
confidence towards both parents.
In addition, your spouse felt humilated by your disgraceful
remarks, emotionally hurt his self esteem.
#11 – Always try to make up after a squabble in the shortest
time possible.
disagreement.
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