How to have a life? Not that I am lifeless. I am still breathing, moving, eating, sleeping and waking up is a miracle every single day. What I mean is that sometimes I am living someone’s life. I am interested in following someone’s life instead of improving my own. I am happy when I learned that someone is happy and having a life that is really successful, while I am here only waiting for their updates and if I am not hearing from them I became lifeless.
This is bad. Life should be well spent because there are lots of people who even wishes their life should continue. Some people have an illness and they have expiry dates based on their doctor’s analyzes. One should not wait before it happens. We should make our life be worthy of our exists. We really need to exist and do our purpose.
I have to admit I am lifeless. This is not an ideal life that I dream to have. It is not that bad. Actually, I am thankful that despite my illness I can still be online and talk to my friends. I still have my family, we have a rotten house, I have my pets with me, two friends that stick around, others do not know that I am still alive. Right now, the big question is, how to have a life?
I cannot promise that my technique will be good for everyone. This technique are all came from some research at Google. Let me share some to you.
First, you need a notebook and a pen. You should write all the things you want to do. You should start to write about what you WANT because from your lists, the inspiration begins.
Second, once the stuff are on lists, inspirations will come out. You will now remember what are the things that you need to do. You will prioritize the things that you NEED to do from the WANTS in the lists.
Third, makes sure that from the NEED, you have some that will make you feel excited and enjoy. Some of your lists might sound boring so you need something that will thrill you. If you put on the lists that you need to write 10 blogs a day, you should also include watching some romantic comedy films after it. If you put you need to have a dentist visit, you also need to include having your hair trim or visiting a massage parlor. You always need to pamper yourself after a hard work, baby.
Fourth, if you already have listed, then you need to plan when the event will begin. You need money, time and effort to make it happen. To make you have a life, you need to experience everything on your list. This will surely make you feel refresh, motivated and happy. It will even make you a better version of yourself.
Fifth, a little research using Google on what are the things that make a life more valuable will really help you to be innovative. You just need to pick those things that you can afford to do with your budget.
Sixth, prepare yourself and like what is write in Nike, just do it!
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