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In a recent survey i have made, i have discovered that 80% of women discussions amongst them self were based on their martial or relationship issues. From this 80% statistics, 70% were based on negative discussion about the man they love.
After a close look at other cultures, i took a closer study of the Greek women, especially those married for more than five years, they come together for cafe and smoking discussing how bad their men are. From statistics taken, amongst ten Greek women living in Switzerland, ten does this. That is to say in Greece if it was possible, 11 of 10 women could be taking bad of their beloved husband or man.
Taking a closer look in this attitude of the women, what does it cause in their relationship?, how do they see each others husband or man? What could happen if the man finds out? These are the big questions that needs appropriate responds. First and foremost, the man loses respect from the friends of his wife unknowing and he continues to play the good man before the wifes friends only to look ridiculous before them. This same man the wife continues to be with, loving him but has belittled him in the sense of friends. They begin to see the men stupid and does of them who are bold enough would say “what are you still doing with a man like him” forgetting that they said similar of theirs but still with him. Thirdly if it turns out than the man finds out, he would realise that he has been stupid love a woman who goes with friends portraying a bad image of him. He would be force to quit the relationship or marriage because he would feel betrayed.
Why is it more interesting talking about the bad things more than the pleasant and interesting part of a relationship? Some women would say to know about the opinion of others but for the good things you don’t need a review or any opinion.
Women can actual talk about their relationship with friends but it would nice if they talk more on how nice their relation is, it brings more respect to both couple, it shows their maturity and how good they can handle the affairs of their matrimony. Even if a man does wrong or there is a problem in the relationship, better it is sorted internally and not with friends, its even better with a stranger who with not take sides. On you know you man better and because of the reason you are still there, let that same reason allow you manage the relationship internally and positively. If women can do without talking bad of their man to friends even when their man is, some how their relation would be envied, some will say i which my relationship was as nice as your. Let this be the practices.
May divorce case are been triggered by negative discussion within friends and the resulting opinions begins to manifest. It would be better we see our spouses as eggs that needs protection because a broken egg is valueless.
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Okay first and foremost it's not only women who talk badly about their men even men do talk badly about their women. Women may be gossipers yes but men are just as bad in fact worse. Okay when you find a woman talking badly about her man she's usually at a point of no return. We all know that women are caring beings and that they like peace and bring people together in harmony.But if you disrespect a woman and show her that she's not worth your time you are giving her more reason to go out there and say bad things about you. Now if we talk about the men, if a man has a side dish (mistress) he will do anything or say anything to make her happy and make her feel like shes loved right? And this will include telling his girlfriend how the wife is a bad cook, she doesnt know how to dress and stuff like all in the name of trying to make a woman feel special now if that is not bad mouthing i dont know what it is. In most cases what men say is always lies but what women say always tirns out to be true.
@anitah, i agree with your argument but you have seen it from only the angle where the man has a mistress. In a case like this she speaks bad of her to another woman and making a fellow woman more important. But i am speaking generally and i didn't mean men don't do this but you will rearly see a man talk bad of the woman he is marriade to and they still live together unless it has gotten to the point of no return like you said. I am an example, many years ago i was involved in a relationship, and i made family and friends see her as the best but after about 3 years i could take forgiving over and over for cheating, so when she went with thesame man i saved her from 3 years before i was devasted and felt used but she came back after 3 months because he dumped her again but i didnt accept her back this time. Family didn't know why so they were against me, after much pressure i had to say why i can't take her back and all she did, she was hated immediately. But then i was sure it was the end before i said het fouls. Many men do this but women sits amongst eachother and speak bad for their men, what they don't do right, how they are not responsible but more about their misunderstanding at home and fights. This bring look down on their marriages. But sure between these women they don't see these about eachother that same like they see their friends man, so she sees theirs also. But it a calamity when it breaks open especially from a quarrel between 2 friends and they insult eachothers men..... Woooo. There you hear them speak what they have gossiped about their men. This write up is to creat the awareness for women to understand that the other woman sees her, her marriage and her man just as she sees hers also and to stop external discussion of relationship conflicts, better they are settled at home or by a psychologist. Otherwise the relationships can hit the block because of this attitude.
Depending on how superstitious you are, very often not to put a bad eye on someone you say bad things about them. You don't brag you don't commend. You tear down. In this way, you protect from the evil eye.
I do think that women main topic are their spouses. It is the best time to know and learn something from each other in dealing with their personal problems. The women support system is the best thing for them to have. If not, they will sort out to different ways to solve their marital problems.