Why you should come back to the ex-partner?

Reconciliation can be successful if the divorce was caused by distance or inappropriate time. For example, you might met your partner when you were too young, and before committing wanted to accrue more relationships and overall life experience. Or maybe you left to study or work abroad, and no one had the strength and the time to invest in such relationships.

So, if you decided to come back, you have to make relationships a priority and make them constantly nurtured. Sometimes, in order to behave with a partner as he deserved, you have to give up important things. In short, if you are committed to a long term relationship, it should be a priority every day. Otherwise, another painful separation is waiting for you.

If the divorce occurred very recently, it is not surprising that you continually think about a partner. It is normal to feel longing, because you were in close contact for several months or even years. But before you start thinking, is it worth to come back, it is necessary to create your own space, to set limits and to spend some time alone in order to make a rational decision.

According to the researchers, break up affects us similarly as the interruption of drug, because when you fall in love are activated the same parts of the brain. It can be said that we are physically dependent on loved ones! Break up can cause symptoms such as depression, insomnia, anxiety, physical pain, loss of appetite and so on. Sometimes you can feel relapse – led by momentum to start writing text messages, make calls, or even visit the ex-partner.

Therefore, before deciding whether or not to re-link the life with the same person, it is necessary to go above listed phases. You need time and space to heal the wounds, means, to stop for a time your communication. When the chemical processes and emotions in the brain calm down, you can take a much more rational decision.

In order to re-create a happy relationship, you have to completely forgive and trust. Forgiving the mistakes of the past, you cannot hold grudges inside. You will create confidence if the actions meet the words, so do not be surprised if it will take some time.

You must mutually support and protect each other, have to raise your relationship above friends and each other’s needs. If you do not think that you will succeed, then it not worth coming back.

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