Why We Fall Out Of Love

Yes you read the title right.

Falling out of love.  Have you ever heard about it? Have you ever experienced it?

Falling out of love is as natural as falling in love.

We all fall in love at least once in life and some people keep falling in love again and again in their whole lives.

Well, love is all about chemical lorcha in our brain. Whenever we think about the person we love or have crush, a chemical- Dopamine is released .this chemical is feel good hormone. This hormone keeps us addicted to think about the person we love all the time because the brain feels good. Norepinephrine is another important hormone responsible to keep us addicted with the thought of our crush.

So because of these hormones, whenever we think about our beloved we feel good .this feeling keeps us attached to that thought.

We all have heard the saying that ‘Love Is Blind’. LOVE is really blind because these hormones influence the sharpness and decision making ability of brain which affects the whole appearance of the person in love. The effect of these hormones is similar to the effects of Drugs like cocaine.

I think the whole explanation is enough to clear it that why we say we are falling in love. Falling is always out of control.

What is falling out of love? Why do we fall out of love when falling in love is so amazing feeling?

There are number of reasons to fall out of love. Generally we fall in love with the beauty or physical aspects. We get attracted to the person, try our best to get his /her attention and curious to move to the next step.

Now suppose the center of affection was also interested in the person and the relationship started the way they wished. The game of hormones will go on for a little period, keeping them blind in love and addicted to each other.

After a while they start discovering more things about each other’s. When two person spend quality time together  ,they come to know each other’s  weaknesses, bad habits ,mistakes done in past ,family background ,lies etc. there can be many things they start to dislike about each other.

If the matters causing dislike or a little draw back are miner then the possibility is there to solve the differences and live a happy life together. Sometimes the matters of conflicts are serious and the other person just cannot accept or cooperate like- the one person is characterless, lack of physical or mental strength, any kind of addiction, with which other one is not okay, and financial problems, abusive nature etc.