This really irritates me, I have this friend right, and every time they get around certain people they change the way the act towards me. I don’t understand why because I thought we were closer than that.
For instance, if my friend and other mutual friends are around they all want me to come sit with them. Then if they’re talking about something and I happen to say something, putting my two sense in my friend looks at my like I committed a sin. Like I was never included in anything to begin with.
Its so aggravating because if I’m not welcomed why invite me? Why ask me to be around, if I can’t even make a comment about something?
Its like I don’t even exist, I’m trying to understand because I’m starting to feel like maybe this friend isn’t really my friend.
And wanna know what the best part is we are adults, I am at least. I’m an adult I don’t know what they are. I’ve never been the one follow the crowd or do something because everyone else is doing it. We’ve been friends for a very long time and I guess they just are starting to irritate me. I feel like they don’t want me around but I was invited so was I invited as a joke ?
If I was invited as a joke, its not very funny at all. My pet peeve is a liar I rather a person be honest with me and hurt my feelings than to keep me around because they feel bad for me. I don’t want pity, I work very hard for the things I have and pity is the last thing I’d want someone to give me.
I would take a hug first but not pity. I have not said anything about it because I could be over reacting but am I reaching? I literally feel left out of the group and next time I’ll find something else to do.
Friends are great to have but I have two friends that never give up on me and are always there and who don’t make me feel left out. I just wish they’d be honest because if they really don’t want me around I can go else where.
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In my opinion, it is better to just wipe off this friends. He/she is just worry that he/she is not accepted in the whole group. A sincere friends will accept on who you are and in case they found anything that you done is not that right, they will discuss with you silently and not to just give a kind of weird look in the public.
If you come around me everyday and everyday that I see you act anti-social, you act not yourself, you act like the world owns you or it's all about you, show a scene becuz that's the type of atmosphere that you like, or just be plain out rude......I mean I can sit here and go on and on about this becuz I have been in this situation before and I'm the type of female that will tell you that you doing to much. Then will tell you also when you ready to have a true friend that stands in your corner and don't mind beating up a couple of females or dudes then holla at me til then don't call my phone becuz I can't stand fake people and am not fake. But if you feel your friends or friend is being fake or not being realistic with you then they don't need to be your friends at all get some real friends that wouldn't mind being themselves around you.
I so feel you my friend this things happen to do many people. It's just that others don't talk about it so people don't see if hear about it often
I must say like you I hate it, NOTE! I have not said i don't like it. It's the worst place to be. I don't like th3 idea of someone inviting me to some place, then you leave me hanging, honestly why did you even think of inviting me when you know you won't even go a me the time to answer questions or even participate in the conversations that will be going on. I remember there was a time when I was invited to go for a drink by a friend, I remember that i am the one who was driving them to the venue. So when we got there, we all entered the premises and ordered what we wanted. I don't take alcohol myself but at times once in a while I get to drink a glass of wine.So while we are there chatting away me and my friend notice that out host th3 peraon who invited us out seems to be evading us like we were not together. He kept himself busy with his other friends in other tables, and somehow he behaved like he really on top of things when in the actual sense he was not. Me and my friend knew pretty well that he was going through issues but he tried to make it look like it was no big deal and that really kissed me off. Why show off when you know you can't keep it up! It's very sad.