Love, care, affection, jealously, expectations, disappointments are some of instincts of human being.
A human is driven by his brain and heart. If there is a balance between heart and mind, the life goes easily and we are able to live a happy life.
The sad fact is, this is not what happens with most of the people. In modern age people are suffering from a disorder which is obsession for something.
Some people are obsessed with their career and they can go any extent in order to get the heights of success, some are with the body image (they spend all their time either working on body building or thinking about it), some people are obsessed with money, some are with devises …and the goes on.
What happens if a person gets obsessed with another person? Why it happens?
When a person is obsessed with something, his mind is all haunted by the thoughts of that thing. The balance between heart and brain gets misbalanced.
So if a person is obsessed with someone, he can’t keep his mind and heart away from the subject. If the subject is around he may feel a little relief as he can show his affection to it and can try to charm it.
Now if the subject does not think about him in the manner he wants, the situation gets very complicated and dangerous. As it’s a disorder, the possibilities are that the person is not normal and well behaved in other actives also. It increases the chances of rejection by the subject. Now the person whose mind and heart is occupied by thoughts of subject and because of that he is not at ease is not in the state to accept the rejection.
These kinds of situations result in Murder, Acid attack, Kidnap, Rape etc.
But if the subject is not in the reach, the situation can be dangerous for him and others. As I mentioned earlier that it’s a disorder, it comes with many other problems like anxiety, jealously, aggression and many others. The person cannot concentrate on any other thing and he is always restless as he went his center of affection near him. In this condition his career, family, health everything suffer. As the mind is occupied by the thoughts of subject he may lose his aptitude which can worsen the condition.
In order to get the subject he can take dangerous steps which also can have very bad results.
The person who is most affected by this disorder is the subject, the person who is desired by the patient of obsession.
What do you think about this disorder? What is the cure for the problem?
Have you ever met this kind of person? Have you ever suffered this disorder?
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Obsession is a very bad thing, and why would we even be obsessed with someone who is just as human as we are. I mean obsession can cause you to do very bad things in your life. You are better off not even startin because the road that you are taking at that particular time is not a good one. We often think that when we get obsessed with someone that is when they will love us more or maybe we will get much more from there. For me i have never been in such a predicament, i always try to love someone to the best of my knowledge and not adore them because now that because a dangerous thing. But I can remember someone who was in such a situation and it weren't a nice place to be. You know that idea of someone always calling you sending you text messages after every twenty minutes, that's a terrible obsession. She even used to stalk the guy everywhere, and her excuse was that she could not leave without him. That is pure nonsense to me. How can you behave like that towards a guy it doesn't make sense at all. This girl kept on with this thing until the guy finally decides to move house, chwnge his phone numbers and any contact that the girl had. He literally ran away from her because he had no peace. She then found out where he was and found him and the game started again. This time the guy went to court so that he could get a court injunction and only then would th lady stop stalking him. It was a devastating end for this lady and it took years for her to recover.
I agree with your point that obsession is a bad thing. Love and affection is very different and healthy then obsession.
I read your story about the lady who was suffering from obsession disorder. It's really sad, it didn't only destroyed the patient's life but the subject was also suffering.
This is very painful truth of human lives.
It's scary for the center of the obsession. You cannot go out without thinking that the obsessed will follow you wherever you go.
He can also stalk you in social media. And if not given attention, he can do some drastic moves, to make you like him.
In every way, obsession is bad. It is an excessive wanting of something. It is said that in all things moderation is the key, but not with an obsessed person.
Hmm, let me think what I am obsessed with. Food? ha ha ha
You mentioned social media, really social media has become a potential platform for the patients of obsession. They use it for every possible potential to get the attention of the subject and can end up abusing, miss using the pictures and many other things which can be too much harmful for the subject.
I appreciate your humorous side. Have a beautiful day.