When remains only emotions and a mind goes on vacation

Always for me happen all sorts of interesting things, although I’m not lover to chat with the drivers. Today, just sat down, the driver’s phone rang. From his first short answers and unsuccessful attempts to end the call, I realized that the guy has unpleasant conversation with his girl. He is angry, and the girl begins her hysteria, hurls accusations.

The guy bursts. He says he does not understand how she can be so inadequate and sitting at home in front of TV, she needs to clarify the relationship right now, when he is behind the wheel and has a client.

There is nothing to understand. She got the idea, developed it and now she is just carried by a whirlwind of emotions and the mind is no longer active. And she is urgent to talk because at this particular moment is the most important matter of the world.

But what is the deal? Why she so urgently needs to understand something? The mind in this case, apparently went on vacation. It remains only emotions. The question is – where is logic. Why she needs to accuse him and clarify the relationship, when in fact she want to get reassurance that she is still loved.

Everything is very simple – for to finally feel and understand that you are still loved, that he did not want to hurt you, that he realized being wrong and now repent. The less girl believes that is loved, the less feel necessary and safe, the greater the desire to “grate his brain”. If the girl’s self-esteem is poor, then she requires more and more evidence of love. Consequently, the more often will emerge such quarrels.

If a woman is obstinate and requires the “truth” – then this true is needed either for masochists with morbid self-esteem, or to a woman who does not believe and do not trust her man.

If a man has maintained a sober mind and did not give in to provocations, he will be able to perform this almost insurmountable task and listen out her. Woman, if she is not a clinical hysteria, sooner or later will apologize for her inadequate behavior. I met very few men who are capable of it. Women still better learn not to make hysteria, and wait until the beloved returns home from work and rest. Honor your loved ones. I wish the love and happiness for all you.

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