When you are in love, what comes to your mind is to marry the person you love for fear of the unknowns. You are afraid that your love might change the feeling to dislikeness. At first, you have to know each other better to avoid regrets and to know whether you are destined by your fate and meant for each other.
Others make a short cut. They believed that once marry love will be in full bloom. It will, but if lack of adjustment to each, a tendency for war and conflict as days and months go by. The more if already have a baby and both do not have jobs to support each other. What is worst is if relied support from a family. It is a very difficult situation. Many said that love flies away through the window if the stomach is empty. For the first year of marriage, there is so much love and happiness. After few years love might turn sour if another baby comes and the same, jobless.
What a crucial life and situation it would be dealing with financial difficulties. You, having no degree earned will force to work in a dirty work, pushing cart in the pier as porter, land as a security guard with a very small salary, land as an office janitor, work as a laborer by all means just to support the family. The wife will no longer have the chance and capacity to beautify herself for she solely confines herself to take care of the kids, do the washing, cooking, cleaning and many more that make her life ugly.
Though the children give parents real happiness and joy, but do you also give them in return? What makes one happy is having money to buy nice foods, nice clothes, nice house and something to keep aside in case of emergency. If sense marriage would turn this way, it will be better to wait for the right time. There is so much time, never be in a hurry or else, you will regret. Do not make and experiment for what is done will never be restored back. It will be your final destiny till death.
Marriage might be broken if both can no longer suffice the struggles in life. They might give up and forget what has been promised in the altar of the Holy Matrimony.This time, life is hard, and money is hard to find. You have to sweat out to acquire few pesos for survival.
But those whose love is so strong can survive the test of time. Life is not all that ugly if there is hope, patience, perseverance and belief in the self, and love .There is no reason to cry amidst obstacles if you are guided by strong faith in God. But, it will be wiser if you marry at the right age to experience more about life.
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Well said, we need patience, adjustments to preserve love after marriage and in midts of all things like bringing up children, social issues, expenses etc.
There are ups and downs but one needs to be mentally tough.
@PEEUSH TRIKHA, That is true, the couple must have patience.They must also respect each others' decision and feeling. If one is hot, the other one must be cool. To marry young is like committing a suicide especially if the parents too are struggling financially.
Addendum, when marry young and not prepared, the entire family will also be affected because of the additional budget, plus when having a baby not easy, the prices are so high, process of milk.That is why I prefer to be single hehehehe.
Nowadays, many couples got married so soon because of being in love. But then, they will get separated just because of incompatibility. In some point, they had rushed everything up and should not supposed to be this way. I agree with you that is should wait until realizing that they are really meant to be.
@Shavkat, many young people want to taste what is sex.They do not know that what they see in TV are just part of actions tasked for the artists and they are paid.So sad to sat that 8 of my nieces got pregnant at ages 16, 17,18.They were wed the boys,but after few years they realized, there is no compatibility and love flies.
@cely You wrote about this topic perfectly in my opinion.
@Linda Kaaz, Thank you Linda.I hope you did not marry at a very young age.LOL.