What is better: to be happy or to be infallible?

Various life situations make people constantly to choose. And very often behind each choice is hiding fear: the fear of making mistakes, fear to do something wrong, to do not at right time, not there or here, to lose, to get disappointed, fall into the complex or unpredictable situation. Trying to hedge against all possible risks and fears, a person can be left without a close relationship, without trust, without passion and without affection. Often the fear of change freezes the man does not move out of place.

After all the changes are the essence of life, it is – the only constant thing in the universe. If the change would not be a part of human nature, there would be nothing – neither development nor life. We all are imperfect. Mistakes are a part of human life. Everything that happens to us, everything that we are going through – even the smallest experiences – serve us and give a chance to grow and help our growth. After all, people are living not for the sake of to live without problem. The man lives in order that he would be interested.

There are no people who are always successful, who always implement absolutely all ideas and always only create.  Many of us living in false beliefs and attitudes, all life their head are beating the wall but cannot ruin it, saying that they everything are doing right, just a wall is somehow unfortunate. Immature person always is trying to change the circumstances and other people, while mature – adjust to changing circumstances and changes himself. And when he does it, circumstances also begin to change.

To adapt to the situation means to learn how to meet any situation. As each locks needs a different key, so each situation requires a different behavior. And the wider is behavioral repertoire, person can select the keys to the more “locks”.

It is noticed that better react to changes those people who tend to value themselves.

Any changes to such person seem not horrific and terrifying, he believes in his forces and the fact that he will be able to cope with any difficulties.

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