What A Wife Expects From Her Husband

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In the course of our daily lives we come across people who are married and are professionals  in different walks of life while in some cases it so happens the woman is a home maker. But all said and done  a married life  is like a bullock cart with two wheels and the two representing the two wheels in the bullock cart. If both are fine only then does the cart move ahead or else it will be stuck and is life becomes stationary. I have come across different couples in life who love each other well and shower all affection on the other partner. Each couple is unique so if each life in the relationship. Here let us see what a wife expects from her husband in life.

From what I have observed majority of the wives who are from different backgrounds would want attention to be showered on them. They want to be cynosure of the eyes of the husband. And try their best to draw his attention this may be wearing a new dress which makes them even more attractive, it can be doing an act something which is surely going to be appreciated by the husband and the attention is going to land on them in the end. It can be a makeup which both of them would like and would make her feel her importance when she struts around the house doing her chores. It can also be cooking a great dinner as when one has a sumptuous and contented meal then the attention gets transferred to the person who prepared it. It can also be serving a meal which is an art in itself. There are many more ways in they would like to draw the attention of their husband.

In the cases of some couples I have found the wives to be the person who is a home bird. The person who likes staying in the house, gardening, listening to music, reading a book, viewing movies on the cable television, chatting with the husband on a weekend, spending a happy time with the family and the husband in particular. Doing activities which both of them like so that she can get to spend more quality time with her husband and many more things similar to that.

In some cases I have found the wife to be the one who likes socializing wants her husband to be with her in her activities which involve meeting friends, relatives or new contacts. It can also involve making new friends in the process which would add up to their list of friends which they would like to collect and cherish the friendship which they value. The also would want to go out of town and visit relatives during weekends and would want their husband to help them in that process. If they see that help forthcoming they are the happiest people in the world. They are active the full week after the weekend.

In some of the husband wife relationships, I have found the wife to be wanting to have the appreciation of the husband for the things which she does for him. She wants her efforts to be acknowledged and see that they are rewarded in the form of a outing, a visit to a temple, a visit to a friends place, a visit to a tourist place which both of them would like to visit, a visit to a place where they both can spend some time together and have some peace of mind in the process from the mundane day to day activities of life. Achieving at least one of these makes her happy and  makes her feel that her efforts and work have been acknowledged.

In a few cases there are those wives who like precious metals and jewels and would want their husband to buy one more for them. This even though the cupboard is full of the metals. They would still want that one more which has a different make or is of a different company. If the husband buy’s one and surprises them with the same their are on cloud nine and are the happiest people on the earth. This till the time they set their eyes on the next one which is different which they can add to their collection range.

There are some wives who are very simple and down to earth. Though these sort of people are few. These people are happy if they are able to finish their day and finish all their activities which they would want to perform on that particular day. A little help from the husband in achieving this would give them great relief and they would enjoy the participation of the husband in household duties and would also appreciate the effort put by the husband by serving them what is best liked by the husband. This is a way of they saying thank you for the helping and lending a hand which is being appreciated this way. They want only this little help and want to spend time with their husband and nothing else in life.

In the case of some families I have seen the wives wanting to go out for a movie on a weekend followed by food at a hotel.  These wives like watching movies, live performances, operas and similar things and they would be very happy if her husband has got her the tickets of the first show of the first day of screening. As a surprise if it is handed over to them then they would be even more happy. They are happy in the simple things of life and the time they spend with their husband. That’s it they would want nothing more beyond that. They seem to be contented souls once they get their weekly dose of surprise from their husband.

I have seen at least a few couples in my life where in their case the husband happened to take good care of them while they were in the hospital. Their husbands were such that they even applied leave and spent the 24 hours dedicating to their well being and welfare.  Once they got well they were immensely happy that their partners were by their side at the time of crisis which gave them moral support and courage which they appreciate all through their lives. This act by their husbands had an lasting impact on their life. This incident also strengthened the bonds of love which existed between them and took their relationship to a totally new level. Where it was of a very mature kind.

These are some of the examples which I observed in my life and found out what a wife was looking for from her husband. Every couple is unique so is there life. Every one of these has their own adventures, failures, successes, happiness, sadness, sorrow, festivities, ups and down and such other things. If feel that the those who stick together are able to see through life in a better way. They respect and understand each others needs and requirements and would play ball for the same. They are more interested in giving and are also happy whatever they receive. This is a two way relationship and communication. And communication is the key to a successful marriage. They look at more places where they see agreements rather than count the number of disagreements. If you have and experiences to share please share the same in the comments will appreciate you feedback.