THE ONLY ONE REASON WHY WE FAIL
Often times, we categorized failure has not getting what we want.
We measure our success by the speed of another person. Once we don’t meet up with that speed, then we will end it up has a failure.
One can fail exams-that is when you didn’t meet up with the merit.
Get this: Failure is a thing of mind.
No one like to fail, as a matter of fact, I hate failure.
I could remember in the college, I failed an exam, to my friends, I just pretended as if it was my lecturer’s fault- and something like “I will call for my papers”- but in closet, I cried my eyes out…. Reason was that- if I could think I have deceived the whole world, I can’t deceive myself BUT..
We still deceive ourselves? WHY?
FAILURE TO ACCEPT OUR FAILURE, US TO FAIL.
The only reason why we fail is simple.– EXCUSE. That’s all.
We have two types of ‘excuse’.
Excuses, whether it is reasonable or not is still an excuse.
if food is not ready on time- we make excuse.
if we come late to work, we make excuse.
if we fall, we tend to hang it on something else.
Making excuses has tamed us not to excel in life. Not until we face it, we’ll continue to walk in a circle.
Face it!– accept the fact that you have failed and it is your fault- not anyone’s fault.
Stop making people pity you. For how long are they going to pity you, accept this fact– people fail, I have failed in a number of times before, you have failed before, we all have in one way or the other failed before…. Then accept it and move on.
Conclusively, because you have failed before does not mean you will continue to fail — just accept your blame, try again and you will be there.
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Very well said.
This is a big lesson that I have learned from life and follow it always from now on.
All that I have at present and what I have lost ids solely because of my actions. I get what I deserve. It is me and only me who is responsible for my fate.
Above all i believe that hard work always pays. No effort ever gets wasted. We are paid correspondingly sooner or later.
Hard work pays, I pity those hiding under the umbrella of favor without work, there's nothing bad if one pray for favor, but if we are to follow the example of God, whom we are praying to, the world would have been a better place. God himself work for good 6 six days out of 7. Rested jus for one. Day, laziness won't help, extra effort always make a difference.
Some people think that when we fail we can never get back on our feet again. But the truth is failure is not the end of the world, its just a stepping stone to work harder and go to the next level. Just like you have said we fail because of excuses, no one wants to accept that they are wrong and that they can try again and make it, all we want to do is blame someone for our failure and that may not stop very soon. Instead the lies will keep getting better with each day. When we are not willing to amend our mistakes that tend to haunt us everywhere we go. So facing the skeletons in our lives can make things much easier in the long run. In fact failure should not limit us, instead of should give us the morale to Fri better and arrive higher. If we didn't have failure in our lives I think life would be boring given that there will be no one there to try to New stuff or challenges
Failure helps us know our limitations.
Failure brings out the best in us.
Failure makes us try more.
Failure helps us to know what we are doing.
Continue to try even if you fail 100 times.
Failure doesn't limit you.
Don't limit yourself.
Thanks for reading.
som eo fwaht you said is write and some it wrong, excuses are there,we are Human an dhuman do not have the power to control everything, so this is not excuse this is reality, the important thing is not to give up for the excuses and let them have power over you, other wised we all will succeed and no body will fail, though failing is a lesson we all need sometimes, I mean to say that failing is not an issue but to wlive with that failure is the issue how you accept that failure is issue real issue what is gon tot decide your life from thats point and on, all the most successful men and women failed, and that is the key to their success, I know that some people do take reasons as excus to fail and keep failing and do nothing about it, but you can not say i guess that excuses are the reason we fail. That is nice post and well done how you did it, wonderful for your effort and for how you share it