Take it all what life is proposing at this particular moment.

There was a time when I stopped to wait for something in my life. And became easy, easy, like I only now started to live, because until that moment I was thinking more of how to live, and there I started. I stopped to wait for something of myself. Previously I was waiting that just a little bit and all my potential will reveals and I will become this or that one, will write a hundred articles, and even better – ten books, will create something great, and the like.

Also, I stopped to wait for the results from myself. And I stopped to wait for something from others – that suddenly someone will appreciate me, something will do, will be with me good and responsible. I even stopped to wait from a partner that he suddenly begins to understand me and do what I want.

I stopped to wait for the money, I came to terms with those amounts, which I had. I stopped to wait for something out of life and requiring to give me something. Inside me lived sensation that I was wrong disadvantaged, supposedly, I did so much   everything, while others do nothing at all and get such fantastic results

And yet I stopped to wait for that tomorrow everything will be wonderful and suddenly disappear all the problems. My naive childishness wanted peace. While the adult part of me realized that a peace lies within, rather than in the absence of external affairs and issues that must be solved.

At this time, I generally stopped to wait for something. No matter what will happen. Previously, it was important that everything what will come would be only good. At the same time, inside sat a fear that something will happen suddenly and I will not be able to cope with. I ran out all my expectations about the future, saying to myself that will be what must to be. Everything comes in the best way for me. Everything is welcome, because it all gives a true experience. And any experience is welcome, because it makes me stronger.

Of course, I have various plans, which I want to implement, but it turned out that my plans and what I think about them is very funny compare with what the opportunities were prepared for me by life.

Now I know, that expectations stop our energy on something one, mostly on a couple of possible options. And it all is ruled by the mind. If we do not allow the energy to move, not allow the life to bring us the best of the best, we will stop the best opportunities to come to us.  And, as a rule, the best opportunities are what we do not expect.

The expectations constantly lived in my inside, my mind was created a chain how everything must evolve, and my mind worked very hard to follow this chain, this scenario, wanted to not miss anything.

One question constantly was spinning in my mind – what and how, how it will be. How will be that or this? But there was no answer. And the most of answers I usually was getting when did not think about what and how. After all, I wanted to know the answer in advance how things will happen.

Previously, before doing something, I had to do through the readiness process, and it was long and distressing period, often so prolonged, that there was no strength more for the actions. I so prepared everything and controlled, verified many times that finally already did not bother to do anything.

You know, it’s something like when you are going for the exam seriously, so much that when it comes for the exam there is no left any strength of strength and you are no longer able to show the best what you can.

And so, tired of all this, I allowed to happen inside me the revolution.

Let will happen everything what life will bring to me. How easy it has became at that moment when I did not care more about what and how will happen to me. I relaxed: everything is the way it will be. Since then, the wonders began to happen in my life.

When I began to better hear myself, I got an avalanche of ideas. I started to listen to all ideas and I realized that I can implement them, even if still did not understand how to do it. But I moved and realized, in the process finding the ways and methods. I started to do much more; previously I prepared to act and burned out. Just amazing, but I started to get much better than when everything controlled and examined.

I started to ask what is needed at the right moment and gave up what is not needed, without waiting for other people to understand or will not understand.

Now all kind of events simply pour into my life, and so much everything need to be done,  in addition – with minimal effort from me everything comes out and succeeds. Also, I started to form one or other important moment, and not just react to what happens.

I got many interesting acquaintances, wherever is possible – and there is no more hard questions how it will be, why I need all these new people. I no longer calculate the number of times when I occurred at the right time in the right place. Events began lining up in chains to get me exactly where I had to be at those moments.

A lot of things itself started to come into my life, even such things what previously did not work for me, no matter what I would not intend to do. Unfortunately, I did not understand what life provides to me just now and complained that it does not give me anything, that life absolutely does not care about me. I simply did not notice, and did not see life’s gifts, constantly waiting for something and trying to find the answer in my mind to the question how it will go?

Everything is very simple: when there is no control and the need to know exactly how things will happen, when you are refusing expectations, then everything happens in the best way. I began to feel the flow of life and its changeability, and started to respond to what life is proposing at this particular moment.

Do not force anything in your life; do not wait for anything, just live. Life itself will take care about everything. You can’t control what life will bring to you, and you will get not only good, but also bad moments, but life will help you to cope with everything.

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