I came across a blog here which talked about how this couple court even after 44 years of their marriage. This link will take you there:
http://172.104.9.193/love-need-say/
I could add something more to what is already expressed there.
Love is not restricted to partners alone. Love is universal and refers to any and every relationship we have. It is easy to connect. Just send an email and express your love for that person. I often hear people say that they love but have no time to express it. I would say that if one is hungry they will eat. Similarly if one has love for one another that needs to be expressed if not on a daily basis atleast occasionally. This couple that you will read in that link above does that every single day and that too they have done that in the 44 years of their marriage. However, expressing love is not easy if there is no love present.
Today the world thinks differently. The connections are need based. If there is something that one can get out of a connection then there will be contact maintained every single day and when the job is done those connections are severed.
This trend is universal and one need not guess what the consequences will be in the long run.
Then there is the fear of misunderstanding love. What is infatuation is mistaken for love. Neither love means having some chemistry between two. Love develops over time having a thought for others without expecting anything in return.
Talking about love between partners, no matter how many years one may know each other love takes root only when two start living together as the scenario of living under the same roof is totally new and demanding. It is only when one thinks of the other that love can be developed. Love, however, need not be in isolation. There needs to be some passion and romance that fortifies love further.
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Love can be anything. I love a plant. I regularly nourish it. I daily give it water and manure it with appropriate quantity. When it gives flowers i use them. Even when it stops giving flower I love it. I do not want to forgo it at any time to anybody. The body is stronger than any other thing. I take every precaution so that nobody goes near it and play with it removing the leaves, cutting the branches etc. I do not tolerate it if anybody does it and even do not tolerate such thing even in my dream. I take every care that is needed. I want to possess it for myself. This is a kind of selfishness. Love needs selfishness. The plant also loves me But it can not express it as it can not talk.
But in the case of a love between human beings they can express it. Here also the element of selfishness exists. But time and distance may sometimes separate them. Even then there exists love.
One should always remember that love does not mean living under one roof. It can exist and survive even without roof.
Loving someone and possessing someone are two different. We tend to possess and not love.
Yes, love has power to strengthen relationship of every kind as matrimonial relationship, love relationship. business relationship, teacher-student relationship...but love must be sincere not fake love because love is the child human holy soul.
But each kind of love has its own distinctive feel. The kind of love we feel for a parent is different from our love for a baby brother or best friend. And the kind of love we feel in romantic relationships is its own unique type of love.
Our ability to feel romantic love develops during adolescence. Teens all over the world notice passionate feelings of attraction. Even in cultures where people are not allowed to act on or express these feelings, they're still there. It's a natural part of growing up to develop romantic feelings and sexual attractions to others. These new feelings can be exciting — or even confusing at first.
Love is the best thing on earth and it is gift of God for men and women on earth to spread among the loveless mass.
There is a tendency to mistake passion, romance, chemistry and infatuation for love.
Love is a mutual thing between two people. It has to be go eh and received in return. No one wants to give out love and get no love back in return. When you love someone the feeling has to be felt both ways. The only difference that we may experience with love is when we don't know how to communicate it to our partners. Women usually communicate their love with feelings whereas men use the visual part of it. And sometimes when feelings are not communicated they spell out neglect to women, and women always want to hear stuff like I love you, I miss you and the like, but for men it's quite different. for a man to communicate that he loves a woman he will buy her gifts and take her out those are the things that man will do and that will feel like they have fulfilled the wants of their women. But that's not it something more has to be done and that's what men just don't get. All in all I think saying I love you is a good way to start in a relationship but as the relationship progresses on then one is expected to know how the partner may want to be recognized and treated in a special way.
Although it is said actions speak louder than words a conversation has power. And yes it should be both ways.
I do agree with your statement that actions speak louder than words but there are cases when we have to express our love for someone.
Sometimes it becomes the need of the hour to express our love.
Expressing our love in the form of some proper words enables us to handle difficult situation with great ease.