How we should understand the responsibility? This is reliability, the ability to keep your word, your commitments and promises. However, the responsibility has another aspect – is the ability to be honest with yourself. It’s the readiness to recognize that everything you have in this life – it’s the result of your thoughts, feelings and behaviors. And only you are responsible for everything.
I always said that there are no problems in the relationship, there are only your internal problems. If you are calm – there will be no problems. And if the relationship has come not to the best time, it means that the hard time began even earlier to come into your inside.
Your mutual relations – it’s just a reflection of what is happening inside you.
Alienation does not appear suddenly and out of nowhere. If a man and a woman are close – spiritually, emotionally, physically, then there is no place for alienation or third person. The third person occurs when the space becomes available to him, when both men and women move away from each other. When you no longer have close contact.
There is no sense to try to get back a partner. Well, partner comes back, what’s next? There were reasons why he left you.
If you want to get back your partner without changing anything, this means you do not want to be responsible, you do not want to change anything, you just want that everything would be as it was before, you want to get back your previous comfort zone.
But any problem, especially if it is painful, just cries out that it is time for a change, a very big change. It’s time to grow up.
You can’t do anything and stay the same as before, still save the former comfort. You need to ask yourself questions what you have done such, that you found yourself in this situation? What changes have matured? Where you have overstayed?
There is no need to change the situation. You need to change something in yourself.
Any woman seeks an attention, compliments, admiration, love. She wants to be the only one, wants the understanding, support. Some of the women think that all of this must obtain simply because they are married. But it is completely irresponsible position. Man – this is not your father and no mother, he is not obliged to give you anything simply because you have become his wife. He of course, give and does it with great joy, but only when he receives what he needs for himself.
Relationship – this is the satisfying the needs one of the other. How can we meet the needs of a man, a woman, even if you even do not know your own needs, especially if you don’t understand what you really want and suffer from constant anxiety and stress? What can be the contact with a partner, if your inside is full of fear and mistrust?
And this must be clarified first. You must learn make contact with yourself, be attentive to yourself, all your feelings and sensations.
When you take responsibility for your problem, you get one very important advantage – you can now change your life.
And if something in your life is not going the way you would like, take the responsibility for this situation, open up yourself, look into the eyes of the truth and start to do something different, do it every day – and then begin to live as always dreamed of.
The problems come not for your suffering. It comes to make you more matured, happier and stronger.
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hey that was nice post, yea all need to help themselves first but all needs help from outside not only inside, meand family and ppl you like or live with are important on how to deal with issues and how to solve them, sometimes you need to view of another person who is not blinded by the problem that you have and able to see the surrounding with no emotions, its mutual not ever alone and not ever just outside issue thing to be solved and just you keep sitting waiting help
While it is true what has been stated in the article above. According to my experience alienation starts when communication is reduced or stops, there is no time available for the partners to spend with other for whatever reasons, too much usage of mobile and other online instruments, spending too much time individually and not with your partner and thinking about yourself, taking a relationship for granted and not nurturing it.
These are some of the reasons why there is problem in many relationships. Sometimes partners treat the other as their personal property which will be with them for the rest of their lives whatever be the situation. A relationship is a two way street there has to be give and take and lots of understanding for the same to be strong and going. A good article which needs to be read by many couples.