We all need friends in our life, be it a Boy friend or Girl friend both have very high vale in our life, cause alone we cannot achieve anything in life.
Even we try to achieve something, after some time we will feel a bit bored and wouldn’t be able to continue with that. Friends are like a God’s Gift to us, we can learn many Good things from them be it school time friend, college friend, locality friends or any other friends.
But we need to be extra careful as well in having a friend cause a bad friend can impact our image in society as well, and with Good friends, we can achieve brilliance in life. If we have more bad friends even if we are of good character still people will think that we are also bad like our friend and that will harm our image in society.
So we should take care in making friends as well, Today in this Global world we can make may friends online on Facebook, twitter, Intagram, and many other online portals but still the basis and measures of friends remains the same. We should choose good people as friend only and leave the bad ones aside.
With friends we can achieve the objectives of Life as well cause if we are working in a organization then we should make our colleagues as our friends as well, in that we can build a good team which can help us in achieving our Goals and targets quickly and efficiently.
Actually The word TEAM is only composed for 4 words but its meaning is very deep and It means Together We Can Achieve More, that’s the main basis of Team and we can achieve many things from it.
We can be Good and Bad dependent on our Team members and we can achieve profits and Gains as well.
I have many friends but I try t make Good friends and stay away from Bad ones always.
Common lets be friends
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I totally agree with your post, I've had friends that hated me underneath everything. When I was in high school this on girl used to talk and do things to people. Mean things and I thought because I was her "friend" that it excluded me, it did not. We ended up fighting the two years after we graduated. Only because I wouldn't tell her something. We were grown I was obligated to tell her ever single detail of my life, I never was and she couldn't understand it. It felt like a break up.
Actually, we all have many friends, but to choose the right person as friend is a difficult job these days cause their are many who just want to get benefit from us and nothing else and use us in that way which is profitable to them
Yes,I definitely agree the people that you think are ur friends can sometimes show you that thier not. It makes you not want to have friends all because of one individual.
I think if we even have a one good friend and several enemies we can still cope with them, cause Good friends are like diamonds and we need to take care of them and try to be friends for as long as possible. Many of my friends are now days settled in Australia, New Zealand , i am in still touch with them thorough various social media websites
I agree. The friends we have are a reflection of us. It means they speak , act and think more or less like you.
Friends should be with you through thick and thin.
Friends know what to tell or not ,his /her friends.
Yeah right, for me to speak with me friends are so much comfortable and i love talking and chit chatting with them but i am not comfortable talking with others cause i am afraid of they may not like my chatting or my jokes. that's why i like to actually love to chat with my buddies
I'm going to repeat myself. I know I must said this before but I can't remember where.
We can be a friend to anybody and everybody. That's our choice. That's our decision.
But we need to accept that not everyone will be our friend in return.
Some people value friendship. Some people don't.
But that does not control me and I value being a friend.
Just because I choose to be a friend does not mean that I will allow you to trample on me, take advantage of my kindness, etc., etc. But I'm still your friend. That's on me. It's my decision to be your friend.
It's your decision to choose to be my friend or to be my enemy or to ignore my existence. I got no control over you. Understand where I'm coming from?
I am not choosing carefully. I'm choosing to be a friend to everybody! But that doesn't mean I am going to let everybody use, misuse and abuse me. That's not what true friendship is about.
Yeah exactly, i have the freedom to choose my friends and i can accept to be one's friend or not. And surely, no one can misuse me or my friendship, i won't let anyone do that. And that's why i think we should choose our friends carefully cause they will also reflect our character
Last remark and I'll shut up. Bear with me while I make this last point.
I'm not sure our choice of friends reflects badly on “our character”. I once heard a person say of another person that he or she could walk with “paupers and kings”. What they meant was that the person had a gift for being to able to get along with everybody, no matter what their station in life. Nobody was too low for them to befriend. Nobody was befriended just because they had a high place in soceity. Everybody was accepted and treated equally as a friend. It says something about your character when people from all walks of life can count you and count on you as a friend.
you are absolutely right but just think of a situation if i am a friend of a person who is a robber or thug and i also know of this thing but still i chat with him and also we enjoy some time together, if my that friend some day caught red handed then police or intelligence department can also think of me as guilty, so to get our self relieved of such issues, i try to avoid these sort of things in my life
Please, just think of a situation if i am a friend of a person who is a robber or thug and i also know of this thing but still i chat with him and also we enjoy some time together, if my that friend some day caught red handed then police or intelligence department can also think of me as guilty, so to get our self relieved of such issues, i try to avoid these sort of things in my life.
It's good to avoid such situations. You certainly shouldn't look for friends like that. I have had friends and even family members who stole stuff. Fortunately, none of them were murderers. Whew! But they got caught. They paid for their acts. My relatives are still my relatives. Can't change that. My friends knew they were wrong. I told them they were wrong. But they ignored my advice and did it anyway. If they need me to extend a hand of friendship, no problem. But they'll go to jail on their own. It's justice. Justice and friendship are compatible.
yeah raheema you are right we all face such situations in our life, but still we need our friends besides us all the time, they are like mirrors to us with whom we can share our joys and sorrows and we can discuss our problems with them as well. I have many friends in my life but now most of them are busy with there lives
I do agree that it is difficult to find real friends.I must admit I don't have a best friend in my life except for God and immediate family.I have a close friend but never attempt to build a close relationship with them. Betrayal is what I don't want to happen.I had some friends who considered to be my family. But then, deception is what I get from them. It wasn't once but a couple of times. Thus, I can't squander my time with these people.
yeah we all do face such situations and you rightly said God is our mist loved best friend, you can accept me as friend if you want to. Are you from Philippines??
There is no such term as GOOD FRIEND and BAD FRIEND. A friend is a friend and it all depends on how you gauge it and how the other reciprocate it.
No doubt friend is important for each and everyone. There are many we come across in our life. Many will go away in the beginning itself, some continue till our college life, and some will continue until the fag end of our life. Are all these good friends? There is nothing can be said and define their friendship.
We get and think so many of our close friends. But, we are not sure how they are thinking about us. He may be having some others whom he thinks as his close friends.
It is always the closeness that defines and determines the value and the depth of friendship.
Close friendship requires sharing, sharing of all situations, problems, happiness, and sorrow. They respect each other for their opinions, they seek and follow the other opinions, they argue, they quarrel, and again the next morning they meet over a coffee table with a sweet smile wishing each other. The distance and time will not be the barriers to define the friendship between two close friends.
Who we associate with is important. I am so blessed to have some close friends who stuck by me through thick and thin and are always there for me and vice versa. Thankfully I have never had a really bad friend, but I do take my time to get to know people.
Statistics clearly point out the fact that people who have friends are more happy and have an overall increased well-being than those who don’t have friends.
In the journey of life, we all happen to travel with other people. We are social beings and need to be in the presence of others. Many times, however, those who we choose to spend our life with can have an immensely negative impact on us. Therefore we should be very careful when it comes to choosing friends, so that we surround ourselves with those who help us find happiness, instead of those who contribute to our suffering.
There are two kinds of people: those who burden us and those who uplift us.
Those who burden us are those who we don’t truly resonate with, who don’t have a similar mindset to ours, who we can’t truly communicate heart to heart with, who don’t understand us and who we don’t feel connected with. Those people are making our lives more complicated, and, whether they realize it or not are putting obstacles on our way to happiness instead of helping us reach quicker to it.
Those who uplift us are the people we can consider as true friends. They are those who can understand us and connect with us on a deep level. They are those who care for us, love us, and wish us the best in life, doing their best to help us grow into the best version of ourselves. Those are the people with whom life can be turned into an amazing journey, filled with joy, love, and freedom.
Obviously, if you desire to live happily, you should surround yourself with those who lift your soul up and not with those who bring it down.
I agree. A good friendship can get you a long way in life. They are the people that help us achieve our goals in life.
The bad friends just bring us down and don't want to see us succeed. These are the people we don't need in our lives.