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Nope I’m not a celebrity and I don’t hate anyone. I try to consider people in surroundings as my friend but some clearly showing that they are not my friend even hates me. How do you feel when you learn that someone whom you love and respect him/her hates you? If you have a heart then surely you will feel like broken as I felt when I get to know someone whom I love she hates me. I have never misbehave with her and can’t remember the moment when I hurt but still she deeply hates me, I don’t know why and she never gave me a chance to ask her the reason. But there would be a probable reason and that is, since childhood I like her brother and loved her parents but should I get hateful attitude in return of love. Am I deserved to be hate?
I don’t expect love from her but at least she can’t treat me this way. When I wished her for her birthdays she didn’t reply me, when I sent her friend request on facebook she didn’t accept me, ok fine! Now she blocked me without letting me know the reason of her hate to me. I cried a lot as I felt so bad that people hates me and I don’t deserve to be loved. I show myself strong woman but these things make me broken from inside. My problem is that I care for people, love people who hates me and never ever will love me. And yes, that’s why I deserve to be hated. I can’t force anyone to love me but when I love I can’t even expect a bit respect from those.
As far I know celebrities have foe, fan and haters too but as a common guy I have never expect haters in my life. This is really unexpected issue in my life.
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If that person hated you and you don't don't the reason, if you had asked her but gave no reason, I would say, IGNORE her, one day she will be curious and ask you instead.
People are weird, the more you try, the more they ignore, might as well ignore your haters, who knows miracle might happen
I feel bad about a friend suffering from this problem as I have been through a lot of situations like this, I know exactly how you feel, but let me tell you, it will disappear.With a pure heart and true concern, it will disappear one day. They will realized what they had done to you and you are not there anymore for them to see it happens. I don't know how to console you, but I am your friend, I will do my best to make you feel okay. It will be okay. Let me pray for you and for them as well. It will be okay on the right time.
thanks dear @grecy and peachpurple for your healing words.
If I am being hated by someone, I will also do the same thing. I am not a person who will dwell with such scenario. I had this principle of mine that if you don't like me, the more I don't like you. I had some few friends who done this to me. It was proven that there is no worth of having the so called friendship.
Though you may not be a celebrity, that has nothing to do with why people choose to dislike or even hate you. Just don't reciprocate the feelings. It will only hurt you. My late mother taught me this. Don't bear a grudge. Don't be jealous. Don't envy. Don't hate. Don't render evil for evil. Because in the end you lose. If you rise above this, one day you may be able to lift that hater out of the dark hole they dug for themselves. Believe me. Hating hurts the hater more than it hurts you.
Honestly I don't think there is anyone who does not have haters in this world, not everyone can be your friends, not everyone is happy with you or with what you do, and funny enough we need them in our lives to be able to know how to handle conflicts and stuff like that. As much as it may sound ridiculous to accept haters in our lives it's necessary. I know I also have haters in my life people who look at you and think, your not worth having some things or your not worth being somewhere at a certain time. Such people are meant to strengthen us not destroy us. I remember sometime back a friend of mine was interested in some guy and she was doing all sorts of things just to please him so that she would go out with him, but fortunately or unfortunately the guy was not interested and decided to pick me and took me out and that did not go down well with my friend, so she started trashing the guy and saying all sorts of bad things about him so that I wouldn't consider going out with her too bad.