Bad
behavior
in a child stems from a variety
of environmental, emotional and biological
issues in a child’s life. All children exhibit
bad behavior from time to time due to the
stresses of daily life. The Colorado State
University Extension Service suggests that
tantrums, one of the most common forms of
bad child behavior, occur in 23 to 83
percent of all 2- to 4-year-olds. When
negative behaviors continue or escalate,
however, CSU suggests parents seek help.
LIFE CHANGE
Children thrive on routine. When life
changes occur–including a new sibling,
starting or changing schools, death of a
relative or even the addition of a new pet–
children may display negative behaviors. An
inability to verbalize their emotions or a
fear of the unknown may cause children to
make poor choices. A child may become
loud, aggressive, defiant or noncompliant.
UNABLE TO LEARN
A child may struggle to read, comprehend
math or understand directions without
anyone realizing there is a learning
disability causing the challenges. Until the
disability is noticed and diagnosed, the child
may act out because of feelings of
inadequacy and ineptitude. A child might be
defiant and non-compliant about
completing schoolwork or chores.
ABUSE
A bullied or abused child may be too scared
to tell a parent or other trusted adult what
is happening. Instead, the child may act out
in verbally or physically assertive ways.
Alternatively, he may become withdrawn and
sullen or display his fears through sneaky,
manipulative, passive-aggressive ways. Some
behaviors, such as destructive behavior,
insecurity and withdrawal, may be signs of
emotional maltreatment, warns the
American Humane Association.
MENTAL PROBLEM
Children suffering from bipolar, ADHD or
depression may exhibit a variety of bad
behaviors, including tantrums, lack of
focus, aggression and defiance. Due to a
combination of genetic or environmental
issues, a child may develop mental health
problems that affect her ability to function
appropriately within her family, school and
neighborhood. For example, during a bipolar
manic phase, a child may appear agitated,
need very little sleep and show unusually
poor judgment, according to the American
Academy of Child & Adolescent
Psychiatry.
IRRESPONSIBLE PARENTHOOD
Parents, who through lack of knowledge or
the stresses of life, struggle to implement
consistent rules and consequences, may
create misbehaving children. According to
Colorado State University, some of the
parenting issues that create temper
tantrums in children include inconsistent
discipline, criticizing too much, parents
being too protective or neglectful and a
child not having enough love and attention
from his mother and father.
GENETICS
A child’s behavior is a product of his
temperament. A child with a strong
temperament is more likely to have behavior
problems than a child with a mild
temperament. Temperament is controlled by
genetics, according to the North Carolina
State University Cooperative Extension. The
researchers describe three types of
temperament–easy, sensitive and feisty. The
group claims that 15 percent of children are
born feisty. These are the children who tend
to have behavior problems. Behavioral issues
may also be a result of biological factors like
visual impairments, speech disorders and
motor disabilities, explains the National
Association for the Education of Young
Children.
INFLUENCE OF ENVIRONMENT
When children are in an unsuitable
environment, they are prone to act out.
NAEYC lists an overcrowded child care
facility or a household with insufficient toys
or activities as examples of unsuitable
settings for children. Lack of playthings or
attention can lead to jealousy and then
hostility between children. The group
suggests putting yourself in the position of
your child to determine how many toys or
activities are necessary. Tips for handling bad behaviour in children
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Every one goes through it once in a life time