NAGING: A LOVE- KILLER POINT IN MARRIAGE

Nagging is to annoy by continual scolding. It also means to keep troubling a spouse, whether wife or husband. There are wives who annoy their husbands from day to day. Those things their husbands kick against is what they occupy themselves doing. Remember, the writer of Proverbs remarked against nagging. He wrote,” She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life. (Proverbs 31:12)Doing a man good is to cook for him, wash his clothes, clean the house, cherish his health and care for him as a baby. Wives should know that husbands become stubborn when they (wives) fail on their duties. Jokes and campaigns apart, there is no how a woman will equate herself with a man in marital affairs. This is because really it is the wife that actually joins the husband especially in Africa. In other parts of the world, a man may join a woman and they become husband and wife. A man has more strength. A man easily adjusts in case of any mishap in a marriage arrangement. A wife becomes an abandoned statue when she deliberately fails to do her duties to her husband, especially giving him comfort. A wife should share in the glories of her husband and also the liabilities. A man is not a perfect creature that was why God gave him a helper. That helper, his wife should be fit for him except she proves otherwise. I write this because a wife and raw food stuffs should not be there in the house and a husband goes to eat or buy food outside his home. It is not recommended that a wife should live to see another woman cooking for her husband. She should not allow other people to wash her husband’s clothes except the ones he wants washed by drycleaners. A wife should protect her husband in the face of oppositions.It is very bad for a woman to join her husband’s enemies to accuse and revile him in the time of challenges. Nagging involves a wife turning her face to the wall when she is on the bed with her so called husband. A wife who is always complaining of sickness every night, but in the day she is a lioness. The husband and wife should enjoy their sex life if they are married.