my perspective of being in love.
I am in love with a man who works hard for a living. He comes home and all he wants to do is sit around and be lazy. He doesn’t help me with anything.
As a hardworking woman I understand the want and desire of wanting to come home and not want to do anything around the house. We are human too.
But let’s face it.. Nothing would ever get done if we sat around and did nothing.
I am a very patient woman. I have been married for almost a year and have lived with him for two. He gets off work and he gets undressed and then sits on the couch.
When I get home. I get into some comfy clothes and I start doing the laundry or start cleaning up the house in general. I also cook dinner every night.
I am equally as hard working as my husband and yet I come home every day and I do the same routine. He gets home and sits on the couch. I start cleaning and cooking.
At the end of our meal. My husband usually eats quite a bit of food. Then he proceeds to the living room to lay down to let his stomach digest what he just ate. I proceed to the kitchen and I start putting away leftovers and cleaning up dinner. I do the dishes and put them all the way. I pack lunches for both of us to have lunch the next day and he doesn’t do anything.
Being a wife to a man that does nothing is hard. We constantly argue and time from time we don’t even speak. Most days if I want to avoid a fight all together. I go to bed right after cleaning up so that I don’t have to watch him sit on the couch and do nothing all evening.
A lot of people say that I need a man who will clean, or a man that will treat me better. My man has never been one for cooking or cleaning.. But you know what. I am married to a man that doesn’t hit me, that works and provides and never forgets to kiss me when he leaves for work.
We are a happy couple because when we argue we resolve our problems according to the other persons needs so that they’re being met.
I love my husband and I wouldn’t trade for the world. I just wish he would help me do dishes at the end of the night.
If anyone has any tips on how they get their men to help out I would love yo hear them.
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I can see a lot of women relating to what you have just shared. To say the truth it is really hard for women in homes. Like you have said we are all humans as they may be but sometimes we see like it's just not fair for us to be doing all the chores and cooking while he launches on The sofa . But one thing we forget as women is that out minds don't think the same as our men, men are very different from women their minds have to be set to do certain things. I once went to a conference one time and it was all about women and the thing that I got from there was that men don't like it when their wives walk around the house doing chores running around with the kids, tirelessly. Believe it or not even as they seat on that couch they are longing to help where necessary. the thing is we need to ask our men to help in the house with some of the chores and , the problem is we never ask. So when we keep quiet the man assumes that we have everything in control that's why they relax.So try asking for help and that may ease your problem
I think some men are becoming unreasonable in all aspects. They can't straighten up their minds to be a real man.Growing up to be a real man should have their own way of being matured. If they are not ready to be the head of the family, then no need to exchange vows to others.
Oh, sad to hear your story. I think you should spice things a bit. Why? Because marriage without putting any effort with intimacy will not stay over the long run. As the cliche goes, all work and no play, makes you a dull girl! Get my point? In any marriage you need to put things up in balance. A time to work to fulfill your responsibility and obligation and a time to spend quality time together with your so called significant other. You can do this by simply having a conversation with him over a cup of coffee, having dinner together, watching movie, any activities you can do both to patch things up. I remember someone qoutes about marriage that their are many rings of marriage. At first i wonder what it is but soon realize the meaning of it when a particular person say about it. Here are the rings of marriage everybody should know. First, ENGAGEMENT RING. Second, WEDDING RING. Third, SUFFERING! Together with PHILANDERING, BORING, NAGGERING, but most importantly the essence of every marriage to work out is LOVING, SHARING, AND CARING....
Marriage is natural fine that parents pay to hide their mistake of doing marriage in youth. Actually marriage is the name of mutual understanding and nothing. If any marriage love marriage or arranged marriage, if no understanding the whole efforts go waste in real life. The home turns into he;; because lack of understanding causes many problems at home if its effect directly becomes on the children and other relatives, besides human mind and soul disturb and peace flies forever.
The Bible says about the marriage is wonderful and informative...
(1 Corinthians 11:3).
Wives, be subject to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, as Christ also is the head of the church, He Himself being the Savior of the body. But as the church is subject to Christ, so also the wives ought to be to their husbands in everything. Husbands, love your wives,
just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself up for her, so that He might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word, that He might present to Himself the church in all her glory, having no spot or wrinkle or any such thing; but that she would be holy and blameless.
So husbands ought also to love their own wives as their own bodies. He who loves his own wife loves himself; for no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as Christ also does the church, because we are members of His body (Ephesians 5:22-30).