They all have ruined your self esteem. Don’t be downed because of those.

People go through downs in their lives. Because they are determined to win over the situation, they turned a deaf ear to all those that other people say that can depress you more. Unfriend the ones that adds up to you depression. Who needs friends like that.

Most of all , love yourself. You are young and you are still strong. Keep finding other jobs.

Be with positive people. Avoid those who speaks badly of you.

You deserve a second chance and even a third chance.

I am also a Certified Nursing Assistant for 24 years and I love taking care of people. One thing that I realized in this profession is that this is something that you have to enjoy doing or it just will not work.
First of all, you have to have patience in this field in taking care of the elderly. You have to understand, once an elderly person becomes helpless, their not gonna like that, so they are going to react in all type of ways. I was often called names from the elderly, abused sometimes from them because they were angry…. but it is ok because I understand that it is not easy for them as well.
I can go on writing about the nature of this field but I just wanted to let you know that this profession is about the individual who can work with people by taking good care of them and protecting them from harm, companionship, etc. It can be stressful at times but I enjoy being able to take care of an elderly person and get good recognition because my work does speak for me…in which case, I have received it from family members and the patient/client/resident.

But why did you tolerate them for taking care of an old man with no compensation at all.

Didn’t you try looking for another job instead when you lost your job?

And oh how ungrateful that old man you took care of, by maligning you to your family. Imagine taking care of a man not related by blood to you for free. How can they do that to you.

No wonder, you got so depressed. I am sorry, you undergo that bad experience.

It’s time for you to look for a job and be happy with it.

Good luck and I hope you will find a job that can compensate your effort well and be happy having the job.

Caregivers become depressed frequently in caring for residents/elderly. Most people think that this profession is easy, but it is not an easy job. I am a Certified Nursing Assistant of 24 years and I know the stressful things that come along with being a caregiver of someone or many people. Sometimes, we as caregivers, might work for a company and they are short-handed. This company might not be able to keep employees so the back-lash is always on the ones that they choose to keep. Sometimes the ratio of how many residents/patients that you have to care for on a day to day basis, is too much for one caregiver to handle. This goes on constantly with certain companies and they are getting away with the mistreating of employees through this particular phase. I am very aware of the ratio- CNA to resident/patient within a 3 different shift basis. You have usually these particular shifts…7-3,3-11,11-7 and sometimes you may work 7-7 shift, both am and pm. These particular shifts, you are required to care of a certain amount of residents/patients, that is legal by the state. If you are required to take care of residents/patients that are more than the state requires, then your employer is at fault within the state laws and regulation. I must admit, these employers are often getting away with this.
I feel that something needs to happen for this situation to be resolved. I can not be the only mouth that puts these things out there…It is wrong for us as caregivers to go through this treatment at any cost. This is one thing that becomes stressful and you may become depressed if it is not handled and you are continuing to work at this place, trying to hold on to your job.
I do believe that the state is not on top of the care in these places like they should be. They do more attacking on the caregiver more so than the employer. That is not right because the employer is not always right but the employer has ways to hide their wrong….regarding paperwork when DHEC comes to visit. They usually get heads-up when DHEC is getting ready to come, so they go around the facility and make sure every employee is on point by knowing what to say if asked a question, and falsifying information on paperwork, etc. I have seen it all. Everything that you bear witness to working in this profession, you hold on to that…its wrong! This also causes depression because you know in your heart, that this action is wrong and really you can’t do anything about it. If you try, you will be retaliated against, by being fired,lied on, etc.
Caregivers sometimes go through these obstacles or they might be going through something else….usually using the things that they are experiencing as an excuse to become abusive,neglecting a patient, etc.
This is just as bad. If you are considering a field in being a caregiver, it is not an easy job. It requires patience, to be able to handle the elderly in a certain manner of being passionate about the way you approach them and the warmness that they should get from you as a person. When the elderly meet you for the first time, they should feel warm inside, not scared of you because you talk loud, you don’t look at them in their eyes, etc. Rather you realize it or not, this sets a presence with them. It might take a minute to be able to warm up to them and it might take a minute for them to warm up to you as well. Once you past that test, it will become more easy because the patient will most likely let you in their world. No matter what I have experienced in this profession, I will continue to value the love and passion that I have in caring for our seniors’!

This was not my job.
I am not medical professional.
You did not read my text.
I didn’t deal with PATIENTS.
I was taking care of family member for FREE.

Yea! There are some kind of evil spirit that possesses the heart of man, that causes him to do evil. But, here’s the good news… JESUS SAVES!.

First imperessions doesn’t last, as the saying goes and this is true.

We cannot gauge how a person is by the way we see him from his appearance. Some people can be very nicely rich and will give us the impression of being rich.

Though, I know a lot of people who goes to the bank , when I was still a banker, that appears so simple , in shorts, slippers and casually dressed, but their savings and time deposits are millions.

Those nicely, dressed are not after all, that rich as I imagined them to be.

Good or bad experiences in life can make one inspired to write. It is through self-expression that one can ease that burden in his heart.

Experiences in life teach you to be better you and teach you life, and that is how make us humans, we need to try and try and lean and do mistakes and do right, learning is an endless method as long as you are alive. going to see and hear things to make you lean from, dont waste that opportunity

Hello;

This is a global question of how to care for our elderly and as people seem to be living longer and the need is ever present you are not alone.

In the US we call it the “sandwich generation.” Those who care for children and their parents (or other family members). You are an exception and an exceptional person to care for a non family elder. Congratulations, you are blessed and cursed with being a Great Person.

Care for yourself first, as you are no good to others if you are not cared for. Take this opportunity to give your children a life lesson in selflessness. Learn from your elder what they have learned in life. And when their journey through this life is over you will have been part of their walk. Part of their life and will reap the emotional and intellectual benefits.

Be an example. You are a star.

Why did they passed that “burden” to you? It is alright if he is your father or mother, but for relatives, it’s a big no, because his/her children should be the ones to do it, or they should hire a caregiver to take care of their parent.