My first and latest relationship I have had is the same. It doesn’t change. It only improves and becomes even better. My wife and I had been married for 44 years. We had maintained our good relationship. We’re faithful to each other. Any misunderstanding between us, we settle it right away. We never sleep with our problem. We never harbor grudges…[Read more]

My last relationship has taught me so many things that when i look back i tend to ask myself what the hell was i thinking by sitting there and doing nothing. Honestly love is not easy to maintain but you can. anyway i learned not to trust too much because you will be betrayed somehow. then i also learned it’s always good to say or talk about…[Read more]

It’s funny how some kids call their parents by their names, i find that very weird, and to them they don’t feel like its a big deal. to me i feel like that is very disrespectful, but to me i call my mum momma or mummy my late dad i used to call him daddy and that felt good at all times. i think parents deserve to be given the respect that they deserve.

Friendships can be very tricky sometimes, and people need to be like very careful with the people around them. For me it all depends on what type of friendship i am in. there are those that will motivate you to higher levels and make you become a better person than what you are, and there are those who are there just to use you and when they see…[Read more]

I would like to do so many things for mum on mother’s day because she deserves it and more, but due to financial constrains am left to do the little that i can. if she is around where i am i would buy her a gift take her out to lunch or something. But if i had the money i would endevour to take her on a weekend out or some holiday some place or…[Read more]

It is not good to be in a relationship at an early age.Those teenagers must prioritize their studies first,This time life is so hard, therefore, when you marry young and have no job, there will be additional burden on the part of the parents of both sides. Another reason why I disliked early relationship is almost all my teenage nieces 7 of them…[Read more]

It should have been better if you did not sell your house, but rather make it as your ancestral home, so during special occasion you will meet together.Well anyway, we did not sell our home, but destroyed it.We hired a bulldozer to bulldoze our 360 floor area home, 2 story because it was made a shabu factory without our knowledge.We had 2 homes…[Read more]

@Shavkat, yes friend, we are so thankful to our eldest brother in the family for he too the responsibility.He only had to check our condition. He hired two house helps for us to cook food, wash our clothes, clean the dishes, clean the house and brought us to school. We are so thankful to our parents for they acquired vast coco farm 10 hectares…[Read more]

At the moment i don’t have any kids but i would like to have two kids, if i had a choice i would want to have a boy and a girl., but it’s not for us to say its God’s will to give us kids and what sexes they should be. I must say having four kids and they are all boys is no joke. that’s a challenging job but when God gives he knows how you will…[Read more]

Though I am the breadwinner in our family, my wife and I share the responsibility in leading our family. I am the head of the family and she supports me. When I am away, she takes the lead in the taking care of our family. We adapt the principle of shared responsibility. It is the true spirit of making one’s family happy, contented and…[Read more]

@shaloo walia<span style=”color: #505050; font-family: ‘Open Sans’, Tahoma, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 22.4px; text-align: center;”> I am the eldest among my siblings and we all live separately but I let all of us sit together and reach to a decision. We run our own families otherwise and there is no property matters to…[Read more]

@ Mark Nicholas , Number 1 is very famous, popular and talk about by girls hehehehe. That is true, girls do not like to be kissed, but when the guy is out of her site, the said gf talks to her friends and tell to her friends that her bf is a gay for he does not know how to kiss. This what makes the girl complicated, cannot be understood.But this…[Read more]

@Shavkat, when my father died, it was the eldest in our family who took care of us at home.I was a new teacher when my father passed away, and at that time there were 4 of us in the family already working, so we told our eldest brother to let me and my brothers and sisters find freedom and liberty. Still we are so thankful to our eldest…[Read more]

I so agree with you on this issue and this coming from a guy it must be very true. Am a woman and I don’t share the idea of girls posing almost nude on social media. All they are trying to portray or say is that they are available for anyone and everyone anytime. It’s very unfortunate that some feel like it’s a way of getting hooked, but it isn’t.…[Read more]

@Shavkat  I did not mention my mother in law but my mom. By the way we do not keep a track of our wife’s mother in general even if we live in the same city. In my case, my mother in law passed away years ago.

@peachpurple You mean you live with your in-laws but do not cook combined but separately! I suggest you to please do your father-in law a favor and share some of the dishes you cook so magnificently. I do not write a comment on them being a vegetarian but read them all FYI 🙂

I am married, staying with my in laws

Ironically, it is my mother in law who leads in this family, not my father-in-law

I once was told by my father in law that he was being bullied by her ( his wife).

He said that my mother in law refused to cook for him that he had to cook his own meal

In addition, if he does anything like gardening or…[Read more]

@Shavkat on the contrary my father was kind of dominating, he never asked us but gave us orders and we never hesitated carrying them out.

@Lola My mom was a kind lady who never tried to dictate terms but as far her work culture she was firm and final her decisions. My father always respected her opinion.

My father always led our family when he was alive as he was the oldest and the male in the family (traditional old style American household).  Now that he’s passed away and it’s just my mother and I we both share responsibility.  My mother does handle the finances though as I don’t have any income coming in at the moment due to being unable to w…[Read more]