@Anand Never mind, I have accepted the fact as it is very much part of the life and we have no control on such things. 

@ suny  Thanks suny for your kind words. And feel sad about you, I can understand your feelings.

@Anand I hope you remain the same under your father’s kind attention. But I miss my dad who left us for his last journey almost 6 years before. I wish you all the bet in your future life!

@suny  You know me really well. Yes that is true. I am easy going person and I want peaceful life. I am happy with whatever I have, and don’t want more either. My dad has gave me always good advice, so I am glad to have him.

@Anitah Gimase  exactly, I know in many parts of the world woman is head of the family like in our country itself there are many states where the reins of the household is in the hands of women.

@Anand I am sure you are an easy going person so you must be happy under your father’s control 🙂

Personally i tend to believe that the man is the head of the house all over the world. but it could also be different with some people with different cultures. People have different ways to showing it or doing it. there are some families where the lady is the head of the house, because they are the ones who do everything in the house whether there…[Read more]

@Shavkat  Currently my father is holding all power, and I am really fine with it as I can do well with his experience. I always used to follow his advice even in my work.

@alina my father is no more and my mother went to meet her maker even before so being the eldest I am the head of family but I try to take everyone in account and take a combined decision.

like most traditional families in my case the leader is my father. he was the one who always took the decisions about pretty much everything. anyway I must say I wouldn’t want my own family to be like this. I would waNT me and my husband to take decisions in common

@Shavkat In my case it is not the same but I let all of the siblings add their suggestions despite being oldest in the family and that too we all living separately.

@Shavkat Thanks for appreciation, actually I already have a home there as I have worked there for long time working on PR Visa.

Thank you @shaloo walia  I have a house there for years so I am going back to take up my job with ISO academy where I have worked previously too. 

@shaloo walia I wish I could say that because I would be shifting to another country in near future permanently and I will have to sell my present house within next year or so. I have been living here for years now although being in a job I have stayed and lived in many places in between.

@Shavkat Actually I have learned to live with the situation so I do not want to make it complicated for myself going against the tide or think too much about problems. I take them all in my stride and feel satisfied even with  smaller gains.

Oohhmy that’s so true, being honest and open in a relationship is very important. The only bad thing is when you do all that but your partner is not willing to open up, that can be very frustrating. Relationships can be very demanding at times and if one is not willing to stop and listen it can be very devastating

@Mark Nicholas I want to agree with you but I see a complication in that 🙂

@Anitah Gimase  I was hesitant due to your presence here but reading your answer I am willing to agree with you 🙂 After all I know a couple of women myself. 

@Shavkat I sold my share in my ancestral house to my siblings and bought another one in the same city long ago. I am glad our relations are normal and we can still visit each other without any problem.

@Anitah Gimase  I chose a place about 16 km away from my ancestral house in an open area with lots of trees and space for gardening and having a…[Read more]